Sinc3r3z Steps Towards Mastery

Day 3

2008-11-12T12:39:00.001-08:00

My fault for taken so long to post these

I have been catching up on Homework , sleep , and Fr's at the same time ... also 2day I had to attend a funeral

Day 3

We meet and again Ryan pounds us with all the information to go from a Beginning Game, to Getting your dick wet game . Including some fucking A Day game . Sometimes shit seems out of your grasp until you find out that its not as impossible as you though ...

As were coming back from the seminar I see this fucking cute ass blonde . Blue eyes . I open her instantly .

She tells me shes going to the bar
Sin: You know what i need a drink sko .

Insta date . We hit the bar and i seed the pull

SIn: I have some pics from Iraq i'll show you later , oh really you dance to hip hop ? cool show me later , oh you took modeling pics ? cool show me later .

We leave and get to my hotel , shes leaving in 45 mins to head back to Cali . When we get into the lobby she starts to hide her face because thats where her family is .

Now i have a day 2 with the tall blonde from the night b4 . So either way this shit has to be done FAST . I don't have time to kiss and cuddle . Or face LMR . I have about 30 minutes from the time she gets to my room , til the time the day 2 comes to the hotel .

We get in the room , i show her the pics then I wall slam her . ( ryan this is gunna be my new shit )

She stops me and says she must go . But shes still there
*Take everything as her just giving you direction on how to close*

I wait a few then tell her im a stripper . I throw her on the bed and start grinding on her . She starts to kiss me , grab me , hold me .... then gets up and says she really has to go ...

O well Ciao

Day 2 comes while im ordering dinner so we split a salad . Were chilling and im honestly dozing off falling asleep . Shes doing the same ( she went from the club , home , then 2 work the night b4 ) we fall asleep then she leaves .

I sleep for about 2 hours and then meet JSpesh at the Hardrock for a little more glory . Also Ryan is there because his flight was cancelled AWESOME .

So were all in the club actually enjoying ourselves . No more craziness , all of us lacking sleep and exhausted ... meeting up for another night 2 chill

After a few hours we call it a rap ...

I hit the bar across from my street and I see this 8

Now listen close to this part
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*** Ryan told us a story on Day 3 about how he would lose perfectly good closes because of there friends ***

He just told us this and like an idiot I do the same exact thing .

I tell a girl we're leaving to go eat and to go tell her friends . She goes and while shes going i realize what I just did . But luckily her friend is getting laid also so she says ok ...

But then my girl says shes going to the bathroom , i should have grabbed her and led her 2 my room . Instead I let her go and then again though about it right as she left ...

By the time i caught up the chode that was buying her drinks all night was on her . And i just gave him an excuse to get away from her friends ....

o well fuck it

Sincere= Maken chode's life a bit easier a day at a time

Lr 5 Min Bar Pull

2008-11-12T12:38:00.000-08:00

After day 2 on Bootcamp my head hurts . So many epiphanies in such a short amount of time . My wing just left to go to sleep and im conemplating doing the same . But yet again everything from this weekend is seriously dancing around my head ....

How can i make this work for me ?
Whats the Most important lesson that i Intend to bring home with me ?
Can I continue my success after bootcamp ?

Then i see this cute asian walk up . Nicely shaped wearing a 1 piece dress . hmmm

She sits and gets a drink and I say to myself

fuck it why not .

Sin: Hey whatsup my name is Sin.

We talk for a few and I find out that shes leaving for Cali ( Or La for some reason I always mix these 2 up ) in a few .

Ryan's Voice Echo's
" Your a man on a path"

Sin: Im tired im going to my room sko .

She gets up and follows me . We get to my room and I fuck her . No kissing just fucking . She stays for about 30 or so mins and then leaves , I pass out from the exhaustion of the night . Im quite tipsy and I as I fell asleep the thoughts still dance around my head ... And by just turning these thoughts into actual action i can be the guy I've set out to become

Day 2 back in action

2008-11-12T12:37:00.004-08:00

I am exhausted . Since reaching the US I haven't sleep more than 8 hours constantly yet . Vegas is no exception , after getting in at 7 and waking up at 12 30 . I shower and get ready for the seminar ...

We meet up , all exhausted and tired .... It doesn't need to be mentioned because we all know already . We then go into a few hour seminar in which Ryan breaks down our problems to a Tee . Im shocked and stunned and he tells us that we need to fix these issues . More aggression , More force .... more fucking Fury , After the seminar is finished we head back to the hotels and prepare for night 2 .

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We get to Moon and yet again it is outrageous . We wait for the place to open . Ryan then demonstrates one of the concepts he has told us about during the seminar .

Laid Back Gaming this shit is fucking intense . Hes talking to these 2 chicks and im watching as he is so laid back but these 2 chicks are so invested in the interaction . And at the same time hes still being dominant and leading . Apparantly they were going back to there rooms after coming from some show ...

Ryan: Were going to Moon , finish ya drinks sko .

Boom they get up and follow him as he just walks off . We get inside and I start talking to the second girl . Just being relaxed and chilled and its on . Shes feeling me . I seed the pull and shes with going to get something to eat after we leave . Ryan has his girl I have mine , this is a definite close . Its written in stone ...

Ryan then asks me ... " Do you really want to invest a few hours in these girls and fuck them ... or would you prefer to finish the Bootcamp "

No brainer .... FINISH THE BOOTCAMP DUh

so the games begin . Armed with the knowledge of knowing the tweaks i need to adjust . I then hit the field and like expected .... My shit sky rockets . I hit state . For probably the 1st time ever i hit state . Not just thinking im In state , honestly state is the last thing that even crosses my mind . State is something that once your in it , your in it . Thats the only way you will know . And i knew it .... oh boy did i know it

Same as the night b4 .... No BETTER THAN THE NIGHT B4 . Sets dont just hook now they hook hard . I don't stop escalating til the girl is littertly Centermeters from my face talking to me . Im pulling the hair , grabing them in then letting go like nothing happened . Spiking the BT . I head down stairs and I see spesh and he points to some 6 or 7 set of chicks .
*100% belief*

I glide in ,

SIn: Hey whatsup my name Is SIncere

BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOM

All eyes on me . Sets blown open . Im introduced to all the friend and by this time Spesh and the crew airborne trooper this set . There all over it . I turn to my target blocking off her friends and claw her in . Face to face .

Sin: Bar now , sko

Pulled her to the bar get close . Shes all over me so Now i sit back and let her game me . You should hear the utter nonsense chicks say when they feel that a guy has more value than them . Or when there just gaming the guy . This shit is running smooth and i say to myself . 2 pulls already ? this night is going to be insane .

After 15 mins the big old humpty dumpty friend of doom walks up . Im sure the crew grabbed all the obstacles but honestly I wouldn't even pay a dude to Wing this fatty . My girl tells me she'll be right back , I told her better yet i'll come find her later . She tells me don't 4get and I walk off into the night . Then again a twirl of sets most of which are more than a blurr

Me and Ryan are pushing thru the dance floor and some short cute girl is eye fucking me . I turn to her instantly . Come here , shes surrounded by 4 chodes , all have there drink 2 there chest on the dance floor just watching me .

In second we makeout , her female friend is close by watching .

Sin: Bar sko
her: no lets stay here and dance
Sin: No bar lets go

I turn and walk and her friend grabs me

Friend: Where are you going ? She likes you blah blah im a chode
Sin: Shes scared of me , she cant handle me ...

As im walking away Ryan just litteratly takes a chick that was walking by and throws her at me . Soon as i turn shes already in my space and I instantly jump on her .

Sin : Omg your sexy who the fuck are you ?

shes on me we grind for a few and then her friend drags her away .

Again swirls and swirls of more sets . Makeouts , some blow outs , some chicks not being receptive . Whatever doesn't matter . Im on a path , they can't derail my train .

After tons of sets later I jump in a 2 set . One is a 5'11 blond . Big breast i likey . I jump on her and introduce Spesh who already knows them . O well

Bar sko . We hit the bar we get a drink and im escalating and trying to figure out the pull . Then she hits me with the news

She: I have the flu

REALITY STOPPED . Im on vacation sweety , we'll try this again before I leave . Give me your number and have a nice day .

Later towards the end of the Night i see a hired gun . Cute ass brown headed chick . Big Breast nice shape . I luv her , shes taken a break from selling shit and im just being real laid back and calm . and seed the bounce and get the number b4 she gets back to work . By this time im exhausted , I've opened pretty much everything sex worthy with 2 serviceble legs and a pussy . Im exhausted , my lack of sleep is starting to fuck with my state and eventually it plumets . Exhausted i just relax for a few when i see another tall sexy blonde .

She apparantly has to find her friends so they can leave , and at first I just feel that vibe to pull her and fuck her . But I relax , I get her number and tell her to txt me .

As were waiting for the limo she txts me and I try to seed the pull after she dropped off her friends . But she had work in an hour or so . So basically we all bounce and head to the Spearimint Rhino for a few b4 calling it a night again . This experience is Mind Blowing like honestly ...

there were so many more set but i can't remember them honestly .... its 2 fucking intense and I can't register it all

but i do know that after this weekend I will be a changed man

Day 1 Cont

2008-11-12T12:37:00.003-08:00

Ryan starts dragging me around ..... telling me to open what I want

of course some are non receptive , some are blowouts . But the majority of hooks out weight the negative . So much positive emotions overpower the negative so why would I allow the negative to affect me ?

I opened this set

Sin: Hey im Sin ... ( hand extended outward)
They look at me and laugh ...
Hold frame
hold frame
hold frame
*** Game Blind***
Boom she shakes my hand
Sin: I dont know where your from , but In Nyc we have manors and usually include our name at this point in time ....

shes loving it . Her friends I guess are not understanding the dynamics to this interaction because they look totally confused and end up dragging her away ...

Another time I did this and the girls back turned me .... O well .

Im downstairs Ryan went to get the other Ryan that is honestly so energetic he has opened probably like every set . I see a 3 set with this cute tall foreign chick .

I open im introduced but i cant lock into the target . Just then I see my way out of this . With No RSD'ers present I am forced to take the alternative route .

Sin: Hey Obstacles , those 2 dudes over there are feeling you . Seriously they keep looking over here . You know what , im going to be the nice guy and introduce you all .

Sin: Hey chodes my name is chris .... look these 2 girls right here are feeling you guys and think your cute .... nah man its not a problem here watch this .... Hey Obstacles meet chodes , chodes meet obstacles .

BAM Grab my Girl and do a twirl . Her back to her friends and shes now locked in on me . This shit worked so smooth that I had no choice but to hear my EGo dancing around inside of me for a moment . That shit was fucking superb . She's about 6'0 with heels on . Sexy Green eyes and an exotic accent , shes from Finland .

Then after a few minutes the chodes tell the girls what I said , the girls tell the chodes what I said and then the chode tells me .

Chode : Your the man dude I swear man thanks !
Sin: What happened ?
Chode: Don't worry about it man, you want a shot of patron ?

After a few I have to piss like Water is being pumped into my Veins Directly . I cant hold it and I know the obstacle course I have to go thru to get the bathroom . Either you have to be small and slide thru open spaces or you have to bench 200 pounds and muscle your way thru the crowd to the bathroom . Either way it will take 15 mins to get back .

Sin: i'll be right back don't go anywhere

Why I would trust 2 chodes who were 2 scared to open the set to hold the set is beyond me . I get back and there gone .... o well next

We head back upstairs And i see the Owen from Vegas caught in a 4 set . Hes locked in and I jump on the 2 floating around . I'm playing around with them for a while . I knock down a bug and my target tells me it went down her shirt and to blow it out .... Ill do 1 better . I bite the shit out of her chest , she laughs and so does the friend . Paul comes in and i instantly take my target and block off Paul and the obstacle . She's feeling me where locked in and then Paul jumps back into my set . Then we switch back and then eventually the 4th friend drags them downstairs ...

Whatever next set is a 3 set . There all loving me . One of the girls says shes a virgin and looking for a one night stand . She looks about mid 30s 5'11 and drunk . I look around and see No one to jump on this obviously easy lay . Then i lock in on my target , all this in about 5 mins and then the 3rd friend comes and drags them away again .... FUCK

I head to the bar there is this cute ass fucking british girl . Apparantly by herself im talking but this chick is boring . Short answers . no eye contact . non receptive to kino . Fuck that I want her

Sin: Dance floor sko

Grab her hand and lead her to the dance fllor and then get close on her . Shes being more receptive , more everything actually . Its only about 12 30 maybe 1 . She wants to leave to get back to her friends rooms . Im ready to call it a night for this chick . I get her number ( even though i cant call a UK number from my phone like an idiot I don't think of this ) She has to go to the bathroom , instead of me leading her to the bathroom I tell her to go and come back to me . ( mistake number 2, should have brung her there .... or just led her out the club she would have followed)

After about 5 mins i leave and go find more sets

Find a 3 set downstairs . Ryan tells me to open what I like ...

There from New Zealand . My girl is cute im locked in and she has her back to her friends . im escalating pulling her in . I know she wants me , shes just resisting the Kiss bcuz her friend is there . Then Ryan tells me to pull her upstairs .

I go to pull and she says she has to stay with her friends . FUCK . Then Ryan tells me to pull her now . I try again without 100% belief and it shows . Then I introduce Ryan to the set and he looks disgusted .

He grabs the girls hand
Ryan: Sko , upstairs now sko
Girl: Eww No lol

Now this is unreactiveness and leading to the fullest

Ryan: sko sko sko sko sko sko sko sko

Then she follows . I lead mine and she follows also . It was amazing . We get upstairs I have already lost value and feel like this shit isn't on anymore .

Then some dude they apparantly met the night b4 shows up and they all surround this dude . Im blown out and for some reason this shit hits me hard . She says she'll come back but at this moment its whatever .

Then Ryan lets me have it for the first time
Ryan: When I tell you to pull you pull . Do you hear me ? Why did you introduce me to the set ? I said pull not introduce me . Why are you in spectator mode , how did you have all the attention and then you were stuck watching .

The words sink in , and it was way beyond chode . I couldn't do something myself so I just thru him in the mix instead .... I understand it but dont let it affect me and get into more sets ... On the way downstairs , Ryan Gives me the Mid Night Inspirational speech

Ryan: What Do I Have to do to make you get that fury ? WHAT DO I HAVE TO SAY TO YOU ????? Tell me you have the fury , tell me you have the fury .
Sin: I have the fury

State pump so quickly 1st set I see
Sin: Cmon Sko , upstairs sko .

We get upstairs i jump on this set Ryan throws me in . The chick is non receptive .... whatever theres a set right next to them . I jump in that one

The chick is on me inches apart , drunk yet sexy . God wheres the bathroom . shes rambling on about shit that is irrelevant to me , just in case this goes the distance I introduce myself to all of her friends to show that im friendly . Then I turn ack and the drunk is infuriated .

Ryan takes a sip of her drunk i believe bcuz she put it in his hand . Shes mad bcuz liquor is like oxygen right now .

Her: he drunk my drank , hes supposed 2 be a gentlemen and buy us drinks not drink ours . Are you going to buy us drinks ?

Hell no lady , im going to go bring this fucking fury . ( But honestly I should have told her to come with me to the bar and then pulled home . It could've happened the way she was on me .

Fast forward to the end of the night . We're leaving and the New Zealand chick comes up to me . Her 2 friends are with her . Shes not trying to leave from her friends at all . So Ryan and Ryan come in and wing ( that shit sounds so fucking cool ) Ryan goes for a kiss and holds his lips like a centermeter from her lips . Then they start making out hardcore she bites the shit out his lips .

So then we start leading them out . I make out with my girl , im all over her . And the Student Ryan is on the friend , but bcuz its the 1st time hes talking to her he probably doesn't feel he could jump on his girl yet .

Me and my girl are making out Im feeling her up , Ryan is finger popping his girl and the student is gaming his . Shit looks fucking awesome . im seeding the pull with mines telling her we are going to eat then hit the hotel . She keeps saying that she can't leave her friends . So its either all or nothing . Then last second the 3rd girl says that we are not getting in the cab with them and throws them in the cab .... Bummer

Head back in and some cute blond with a red dress looks at me a second 2 long

Your cute who are you ...

Claw her and lead her outside .... She tells me shes by herself , shes supposed 2 be going to the Rhino .... I tell her were going to the Hotel . But then she tells me her cousin is behind her . I turn and hes like a few feet behind us .... FUCK ... btw hes a male .

So she wants to head to the Rhino, now he wants to go to the room and sleep . She takes my number and tells me to call her and we can meet once she gets home ....

Then we get in the limo , hit The Rhino ... chill for a few then go home

And this is only Day 1

Day 1

2008-11-12T12:37:00.001-08:00

Seminar and Night Game .

Ryan is a very interesting man . His concepts and ideas tend to draw enormous amounts of attention . After paying for my bootcamp, i decided to make sure I read every post he had .

Study up on his ideas, thoughts and concepts so they are vageuly familiar to me ...

HOWEVER nothing you can read can compare to what he has to demonstrate . His writing is powerful but his words mixed with his energy is what gives the meaning to his words life .

Imagine Dr King bloging his " I have a Dream" speech . It would be powerful of course . But you wouldn't understand the words the way he wants them expressed until you heard it spoken .

Everything i thought i knew about his ideas , were nothing .

" This is not Bandcamp, this is bootcamp"

After getting 2 BC an hour late . He gave me the brief introduction and then gave us a few hour seminar . Part of which was actually over dinner . Jotting down the important points , eating and listening @ the same time is starting to become challenging . I dont feel an ounce of sleep at all . We finish up and head over to Pure .

He tells us
"None of that shit from the internet you will not used anything canned . You will open introducing yourself or with something that is relevant to ths situation and time "

Rated one of the best night clubs in the united states . As we stand outside waiting for the place to open , there are well over 300 to 400 people waiting online . This place isnt even open yet , and there is already @ least 300 people here .

Ryan points to the other bootcamp student Ryan

" 2 set Ryan go"

So it begins ...

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Ryan enters the set and i join a minute later . Im not sure as to Ryan's target but apparantly they are there for 1 of there bachelor parties . I fluff , i feel that the bachelorete is feeling me but im kind of scared to push it forward . Then there 3rd friend enters the set .

Bachelorete sees my attention shift off of her onto the new girl . Shes sexy , short nice breast ass and cute as fuck .

I claw and begin what i normally do . Fuck that i want you sweety , your mine .

Then we start to bust there balls ,
"why the fuck are you guys not dancing ? I thought you liked 2 party ? What is this ? Its a fucking party !!!"

I start to scream
"Woooooooooooooooooooooooo"

Everyone looks at us . This goes on for no more than 15 mins . I know this girl is into me . Shit at this moment who wouldnt ? I could SNL Manwhore right now . Im fucking amped . Ryan flashes me with his signal light .... Claw .

I pull her in ... still feels it ... its on its on its on .

Sin " your going to be my party girl, you like that dont't you ?
Her: " lol sure, we can handle that "
Sin " when we go in we get a drink, then we rock the shit out of this night club"
Her: " sounds good, come get me when you get inside"

Chris comes ( junior spesh) and gets us inside in under 10 minutes . Shes still outside and im ready to rock fucking Pure the fuck out .

We go in and Ryan tells us again . When he tells us to open we open , no debating , no choding , just go .

We get inside , i feel the music vibrating my soul . The air filling my lungs .... its time i am here .

I chose to keep it simple .

Sin " hey my name is Chris"

Every sset opened and hooked . It was simple and easy . But this was never the problem for me anyway .

1st set i open is about a 5 or 6 set . There all in the 8's . I choose a target and lock in . Were vibing and shes feeling me hard

Sin: its my 1st time in Vegas , me and you are gunna rock this shit .
Her: yea definetly , i just need more drinks 1st . Then we can party like animals .

He friends want to see around . She tells me she'll be back . I attack another pack , and another and another .

Everytime hitting the attraction point and then getting stuck gaming . Nothing further . Ryan comes up to me .

Ryan " your opening Great your coming off as higher value , but then you keep gaming . Imagine if Brad Pitt approached a girl and then started gaming her ... she would lose intrest "

It hits me .... it sinks in and the realization is clear . Often back home i can easily get the girl to be into me . But then I would be so busy trying to game that i lose it .

Fucking

BINGOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

Next set i open , hook , relax . Shes stunned and all over me , Ryan comes in and takes the friend . The execution is brilliant . Here we are 5 mins in and this girl is kino'ing me like she learned it on the fuzzy hat show . Then the 3rd friend comes and swoops them away .... next set same thing .... Ryan let a leash off of a wild Pitbull surrounded by weak little hot dogs with no cages .... but yet it was still only 12 am ..... still tons more girls and im already feeling amped ...

Start Of An Rsd BC

2008-11-12T12:29:00.002-08:00

It has happened . I have found my path and it look promising . After fumbling around in the dark for months with no set rules and path as a skilled new be . I have been given the light and pointed in the right direction . After reading constant blogs , success stories , post bootcamp challenges . I decided to take the time to making that dream a reality .

The military uses bootcamps to turn civilians into soldiers however it is only the 1st step of many . BC puts you into a situation that if you choose to follow correctly , you will become 1 of the best soldiers manufactured .

RSD uses the same concept from chode to men. It is also only the 1st step and if you choose to follow the right path .... you will become the man you intend to be .

I show up in Vegas already lacking sleep . Physically and mentally I know i dont have the energy to give this town my all . However i have been in particular situations . Me being exhausted, but yet my body musters the strength to complete what i felt was impossible . I arrive in Vegas and can fell adrenaline rushing thru my veins, sleep is the last thing on my mind . The sights of this beautifully captivating city gives me a hard on ..... THIS CITY IS GOING TO GET FUCKED .

Im amped and apparantly the hotel clerk notices . She small talks me and propose we hang out next time she comes to ny . She then throws a pad at me to write my number while she writes down hers . I get to my room, drop off my bags and decide to get a 3 hour nap before the 7pm meet .

I lay down ( big mistake btw) and end up waking up @ 7 . FUCK !!! . I shower and rush to the cab station . After getting to the meet spot , apparantly the lady i speaks to has never heard of a Ryan . Or an RSD seminar going on , im groggy sleepy and confused . Debating running thru the casino yelling

" im a chode come save me from these horrible endeavours RSD"

At that moment , a man a few inches shorter than me YET with such a giant aura about him approaches me .

" Are you Christian ?"

@ that moment .... i was shell shocked . Tired ? No more . Grogginess ? Finished . I was currently preparing myself for the best weekend of my life .

" yeah Ryan ?"

I was embarking on an adventure . I was steping into a realm where I will gain what others seek ....

After this weekend I will become the sex worthy man .... WHOS COMING WITH ME ?

Last Day Of Chodehood

2008-11-12T12:29:00.001-08:00

I am a man on a mission .

Point Blank Period . I have goals and by all means I will Reach those fucking goals

1st Off I go shopping on 5th Ave in Manhattan . I enter the Abrecrombie and Fitch store . Apparantly this store is just like a fucking club . Its packed with people and they blast house music like they serve drinks over the register . Im in my own reality , nothing will Derail me . I see a cute dark skin nicely shaped 8 . She's sexy and sees me the same time I see her ( she works there .

So I walk around and then she approached me .

She: are you looking for a job ? blah blah blah blah blah blah blah ( complete motor mouth )
Sin: Why are you talking so fast ? Are you nervous or something ?
she: lol no ... can you not understand me ?
Sin: I understand but i'd prefer you talk slower
She: Ok ... well blah blah blah and your handsome so it won't be hard for you to get a job here

I knew she was already attracted . Like seriously , why would I game a girl thats already feeling me . I let her game me for about 10 minutes . She throws out the handsome comment so I plow forward .

Sin: Your cute also , give me your number i'll keep in contact .
She: I have a boyfriend ...
Sin: So i guess your in one of those relationships , where your BF doesn't allow you to have friends ... your right I don't want your number .

She's stunned and show's it .
She: Your confident in yourself omg why ?
Sin: (laser eyes) I think its the scorpio in me .

She's captivated ....

She: Omg I can't believe you said that ill ttyl .... Bye

She told me where she worked (upstairs) but I am not chasing her . I finish shopping and leave . Because this is where I shop I WILL SEE HER AGAIN .

By me holding frame for the whole interaction then chasing afterwards . It looks fucking Chode as shit , im surrendering my Value because she left . Instead I shop pay and leave .

On this Thursday I have been awake since 9am because of family issues . Its kind of nerve wrecking but I remain calm and deal with it . So I go from 9 am to 11pm with out more than a 10 minute nap in a Taxi and I plan on going out that Thursday . Trooper or stupid ?

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I meet up with Efty and and Indeed . Its my first time meeting Indeed (Mike ) Personally and he has this good vibe . We hit some local Bar on 14th st and its fucking Dead . A Few cute girls though so we stick around for a few for Mix to come , and then bounce .

Efty opens these chicks thats next to us , then Indeed goes in after . I do the creepy and stand behind the girls for a few but in all honesty its not being creepy its just being me .

So I ask Efty who's his target . I hate stepping to a chick that another dude is on . Because after a while they start to think your doing it on purpose . So what he tells me is the hottest one which is really fucking cute is the one leftover .

She's wearing some ring that looks like a white rose ...

Sin: I love your ring .... GIVE it to me .

she complys and takes it off . While slipping it on my finger . I then turn to friends and say

Sin: Cassie just proposed 2 me , where getting married in the morning !

From here the set is ran accordingly . My girl is now tuned into me with her back to her friends and Mike and Efty are gaming there friends . I Seed the bounce and they want to come , but one of there friends is only 20 . (Bummer) So we bounce after I get here number and hit Chodeservort .

Indeed bring me in to the Vort With him . Its packed like he said "typical Thursday night " . I Spoke to Steve (Pythag ) and hes on the way .

We hit the patio and Efty jumps in a set . I don't like any of the girls so I just stand there and toy with my phone .

Girls: Are you his bodyguard ?
Sin: Yea totally , girls like you are trouble .

I turn around and there are 2 girls behind me , Both of which proceeds to open me .
( im going to call her Hb DL because its the same chick DL pulled that night )
Hb Dl: Why is your collar up ? It makes you look gay . Are you gay ?
Sin: Me gay ? yeah im gay come here .

Quick makeout then i just let go of her . But shes still holding onto me at the waist . The second girl is just standing there. Then a tall brown headed women walks up to me . And also opens me . So now I have a 2 set that just opened me a cute tall chick and a chode standing there looking lost .

Efty is behind me in a 3 set and Mike and Scott are doing there thing somewhere else in the club . This is what I have been waiting for .

Now the tall chick comes over and also comments on my collar , at this point I can care less what she thinks or says . THough she is giving me like the most serious case of laser eyes I have ever seen from a female .

Hb Tall: Omg he has his collar up but he looks so sexy .... blah blah blah . your cute . you know what talk to me now .

I look at her and stare for a few seconds and try to figure her out .
Hoe ? Value seeker ? Prostitute ? then the chick that made out with me says to Hb Tall .

HB Dl: your cute and tall . I love your nose .... blah blah blah utter randomness .

I turn to Hb Tall come here .... who are you ? honestly a minute later

Sin: I need a drink .... sko
drag her off the patio and about part way out she stops and hands me a card . Im like wtf then i keep going anyway .( turns out she works for some new PUA Nyc shit . )

Float around for a few then see Mike on the balcony kicking it to some cute chick . She has a friend that is apparantly bored . I wing her but this cute chick is an utter bore . No escalation no nothing . just boring fluff talk . I couldnt even bring the convo anywhere . But to help Mike i stay in for about 10 or so minutes and then eject , hopefully he got it .

This is when I see some tall dude . Motha fucka looks like he has game . Chick with a red dress is honestly all on him , and while im talking to these dudes from some other P U A site hes pulling a chick to the elevator . I tell the other dudes that honestly he must be a alpha bcuz that chick was all on him . Turns out 10 minutes later its Distant Light . Its my 1st time meeting him and hes a cool guy . Hes young so by the time he hits 21 motha fucka will be pimp . So we hit the balcony and a 3 set comes up . Hb Dl comes up and hes on her for a second . Then she remembers me and comes to me , while he goes and opens the 3 set . Now this chick is drunk yet cute . Out of control yet sexy . I would honestly fuck the shit out of her . But me and DL have been talking and it seems like this will be a bigger victory for him than me . So shes on me putting my hand on her ass coming close to my ears , my neck . Honestly talking about utter non sense . But im sitting her trying to Eye code DL to pull her . Hes locked in set and not seeing shit im throwing at him . FUCK . Eventually she messes up Efty and Dl's set by asking one of there girls for a cig and the girls leave .

I then tell Dl

Dude your going to fuck her 2nite . Go find her , throw her in a taxi and fuck her . This is your SP and this is your chance to get past it .

I don't know if he looked at the situation the way I did . If you have a problem keeping a set and going for the close . When you get the oppurtunity to break that point you take it . No Ifs and Or Buts . But he doesn't do so . ( eventually he leaves sees her pulls her and fucks her though cIAo to him)

I open a 9 tall sexy and nicely shaped . She has a ton of tattoes and an accent that makes my dick jump .

*** Two conflicting realities can't co exist ***

I tell her to come to me and it takes her a while to comply . But i Hold frame , she eventually gets up and comes to me .

Were talking just vibing for a while. I can tell shes into me but for some reason its off by a little bit and i cant put my finger on it .

Hb9: Your americans always try to flatter a women
Sin: Honestly I dont flatter, I just tell a person what I feel .
Hb9: your cute , and smooth .... ( this is eventually where I lose it)
SInL Nah im not smooth yet again I only speak the truth and say what I feel .

Then her cougarish friend who is about Mid 40s maybe even 50s tells my girl in some language i am un familiar with .
" I want to fuck him"

sorry lady, Im not the guy that likes to take Elders and fuck them til i break a hip .

I pull my girl to the bar , get a drink then pull her to the seats . The frame is up in the air but im thinking its on . So I escalate , escalate , escalate ... then she gets up and walks away . Whatever NEXT

Place is dead . I open a 3 set . One of the bouncers and some girl and i start talking to the other one . Vibing for a few , lead her to the seats game some more . She wants to hang out but unfourtunatly for her I go to Vegas in the Am . Then in about 5 mins her friend comes and drags her away , then out of the club . Pooooof GAWNNNNNNN .

now its dead , im just chilling and pythag is still there . theres a 3 set with 2 asians and a short cute yet kinda chubby 7 .
Steve has already made out with both the asians i believe and the 7 is the only one left un touched . But there leaving so she comes to me to give me a hug and then starts making out with me ....

hmmmmmmmm CLOSE . I tell Steve " lets pull"

But the asians are 2 drunk . shes lost and confused and stumbling . It takes 15 minutes to get them to finally leave the Gans . Were ready to get in a cab when one of the chicks says that she has to wait for someone . they spend 10 more mins arguing and then the two girls leave the 3rd 1 behind . Then they say

" only me and her are taken this cab"

Fuck that sweety scoot over . With a little plowing this would be easy but i check my phone and I have to get home to pack for Vegas so I let go and take a cab home .... ready to embark on a 4 night stay in the greatest city in the US .... And this my friends was my final day of Chodehood ..

Day 2 back in action

2008-11-12T12:27:00.003-08:00

Im still suffering from a heavy case of jet lag . Its fucking me up big time because I wake up at 9 after going to bed at about 4 or 5 am . I cant go back to sleep afterwards and I don't get tired til around when I usually head out .

So Wendsday I have a Day2 with this girl from about a year ago . I met her prior to entering the community . Shes the sexy dominant cocky black female that guys avoid . And I was at the time , no match for her frame . However while in Iraq i have managed to change frames and knock her off her pedastool . She's feeling me seriously , and I have her cooking me a dinner prior to me heading back to theatre . So we meet up, shes late as hell and im planned to meet with Scott in the city . She finally comes, late as hell with tons of excuses . We go to my house and were vibing .... its our 1st time actually hanging out because when i met her it was brief . Out of no where I makeout with her , feel her up and then stop . i did this tons of times and it pumped her emotional state up quickly . But i giveup the close because I honestly told Scott I would meet him , and i want to stick to my word . ( No biggie , theres no problem turning down sure pussy when you have another meet the following week )

I get to the city prior to Scott leaving . We talk for a bit and then go into set

4 set .... 2 colombians and 2 spainards . Soon as we enter they start taking pictures of us . We start talking and notice that the language is going to be a problem . After I notice this i switch to spectator mode and watch Scott (Mix) and Steve (Pythag) run the set .

We eject head into another 3 set and i had no interest in my girl at all . She was older (32) but looked alot older than that . Very skinny so she really wasnt on my to do list . But i just winged so Mix and P could get something going with there girls . I iso the girl i was talking to , and come back and Mix left .

Me and Pythag hit Apt . its cool not to good though . Soon as we walk in P is in set with these 3 spanish females . i walk in and he introduces me . One of the female walks over to me and the other also pays me attention , so i drag them about 5 feet away so P can get Iso .

It starts to rain ( were on the balcony) and I make them dance in the ran . They refuse and I bust there balls for being boring . They comply almost immeadietly . My chick is into me . Definetly wants the dick , her friend is not letting me get Iso with her so i feel her up with her friend right next to us . Shes holding EC heavily ... had Scott been there this would have been a triple lay for sure . The girls want to meet up the following night and i take my chicas number and they leave .

We head back to Gans and its not good at all . I see this 8 giving me heavy EC . Shes confident as shit just the way I like them . I stroll in , were vibing , im clawing , shes liking . Simple . I lead her to the balcony where I steadily escalate . Shes DTF and I know it .

She has cherrys in her mouth , i tell her caring is sharing . Makeout .

Her: My drink is finished
Sin: Good Sko
Her: Where are we going ?
Sin: My place now sko ....

Says her friend stays in the hotel and she has to get back to them . But tells me to call her when im leaving the Gans and she'll take a cab to my house .

Me and P Debrief and I call her once i get home . She told me call her back in 45 minutes because they were going to some other bar but she really wants to come thru . but im tired so i go 2 sleep on her .

Sticking Points
Since i have been back I have to get used to physically and verbally escalating . In country doing this can get you put in jail so i tend to re frame from such .... But now that im back home i have to slowly creep into that mind state that ITS FUCKING NORMAL

that'll be all

Day 2 back in action

2008-11-12T12:27:00.002-08:00

Obliverating Social Boundaries

2008-11-12T12:27:00.001-08:00

So FINALLY im back home . No really all the way back home . I spoke to a few people and even quoted myself saying ...

" If they dont let me out of Iraq fast, my nimbus is going to turn into a nuclear bomb and evaporate the chodes and chodettes in Iraq"

Seriously it was just that serious . Haven't written a fr in forever people . So bare with the format .

I meet up with Teke aka Efty at Mantra . Its a Monday and you can tell , People ? not much . So me and Efty sit and talk for a while catching up on the months I have been apart . It seems like the NyC crew has been doing a lot of damage .

So it begins , soon as we walk on to the second floor Im opened by some Dj who recognizes me from somewhere . He's cool introduces me to his TWO girls . Nice .

While standing by the bathroom a girl nearly runs me over just to go to the bathroom . I stop her and bust her balls hard for it , shes loving it ... then she gets the sudden urge to urinate and leaves . On her way back out I say ...

" There you are I knew you love'd me .... You came back to me "

In all actuallity she was walking back to her set . She laughs and i jump in fast . Im teasing her rambling about utter nonsense and when i bring up meeting up its a no go . Then she excuses herself because her boyfriend was there with her .

We go over to Apt . Its dead as well . While walking by i notice THEE Ideal Girl for me . Well almost ideal but she was at least a 9 . Had to be , she was just that hot About 5'9 slender with a beautiful shape , light brown complexion , chinky eyes , long flowing hair . At
first i notice her as im walking by , herself and one of her friends notice me at the same time . There both commenciing Eye Contact . I step out onto the balcony and on the way back in Hbideal is commencing laser eyes and colgate smile . I stop and with 2 fingers tell her to come to me . She Comes and she looks better up close . So the interaction starts im busting her balls so much , leading her to the bar , leading her to the seats shes loving it . Then she tell ms she needs to keep her friend company ... No Problem . Introduce Efty to the obstacle ( who was also about a 9 . Like seriously all 3 girls were sexy as shit ) Now i lead her alittle further and im still trying to get used to this escalation shit . FUCK its like the only thing keeping me from fucking this bitch in the bathroom . And I KNOW it . But even though this girl is all over me , I cant escalate like I should be doing . Either way she seems DTF , its her last night in NyC . All I need is Efty to deliver on the obstacle . But for some reason shes being a bitch and not being that social . Efty calls it a night and my girl is to busy worrying about letting her friend be bored . I tell her i'll come back to her and start to find other sets .

Go on the dance floor and meet this zexy french WoMen 8) . Shes tall and delightful, I love it . Yet again not escalating like I should be doing . And all though she started off into me , over the next few minutes I can see the value of me in her eyes plummet like the stocks . I number close and eject b4 it gets any worst .

British female opens me and we start talking . im al over here , teasing the shit out of her and shes loving it big time . Giggling and everything , she has a nice body and she cant stop dancing . Its quite entertaining , I haven't seen a hot chick in civilian attire dancing this good in almost forever . Her friends jump in the set , try and steal her away but she gives me her number on the way out .

Head back upstairs and run into HbIdeal . Some dude thats kinda Alpha is on her . His friend is standing next to him like a bodyguard or something . I talk to her friend for a bit then go back to her . She lightens up forgets the Alpha Chode and its back to me and her again . But its not as good as it started . I can feel it , i go for the #close bcuz shes not feeling the bounce , She offers her email which I oblige . But after she tells me she really wants to keep in touch I take the email .

After this there wasn't much memorable .or anything I can remember for that matter so I went home ...

Good way to ease back into this shit !!!
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Valued Points

2008-10-31T23:06:00.000-07:00

Basically im going to point out a few things that will make people surpass the skill set there on, and reached higher better levels quickly .

1st: Canned material is cool, but Direct is better
Theres nothing wrong with canned material . Nothing at all, but going direct is better . Its better because your not excusing yourself for being a man . Fuck that your taken your intentions and running with it .

Sin: Omg your fucking gorgous , what is your name ?

She doesn't have to wonder what im doing there, i just told her

when people used canned material they tend to "think or be in there head 2 much"

I just read a fr when the girl basically told the guy she wanted to fuck him with 2 sentences

hb: I really like you
HB: Yeah, I'm that good in bed you know

When your using canned , you have to gauge the female all the time and see how hi you have pumped her attention towards you , her bt , and also keep an eye on her responses . If a female makes this statement , there is no more investing , you should be focusing on raising and producing sexual tension .

so then she wont be saying "im that good in bed" she'll be saying " im that much better than you in bed, im going to show you"

so if your in your head so much , you'll be so busy 'thinking' you wont notice the fact that she may want 2 leave with you now .

Fixer: Think less, act more ..... free flow the set and let shit go where it may . Also think of your own routines, if your using shit from "the g@me" your putting your ego on the line everytime . And eventuall you might find a chick that has read or heard of the book and opener

2nd: Extractions and logistics

Sometimes Logistics may suck, yeah we know . But that doesn't mean shit . As a man we have been raised with the gift to IMPROVISE, as men we tend to try and get shit to work the way we want to . If it doesnt then we let them go .

We have new guy's all over the place, who felt like Pick up wasnt for them . But yet there getting closes constantly . There gaining the skills thru constantly being in the field . And there understanding that logistics are only an issue if you allow them to be .

Sin: "lets go to my place "
hb: "sorry my friends are here i cant leave them "

but yet shes still with you, still following you around the club and still allowing you to pump her BT .... THis means shes willing to overcome the logistics and go some where else

Pick her up and carry her to an alley ( Credit goes all to Kimball, Have yet to try it )
Pull her to the bathroom
Pull her to the backseat of your car , it doesnt matter .... as long as she is still with you she is still willing to close . ASSUME THIS AND SHIT WILL WORK PERFECTLY
You've gamed her
Shes into it
You brung up bouncing and she rejects , while staying with you and allowing the make out .... and alllowing you to still escalate . Then she obviouslyy still wants to fuck, its up to you to make it happen . Usually you read reports when guys say
"she didnt want to go home , so i let her go "

WHAT .... WHYYYY ?????

Then they say "they cant seem to pull" this is why

Adapt and Overcome .... understoood ?

3rd: Confidence

This is quick yet important . Confidence is everything . Who here has heard of "Swag"?

Swag is a hip hop term for a brilliant confidence in someone or the way you carry yourself . Swagg comes from your core , your core is ran by your personality . If your core doesn't have confidence then you have no help as a gamer or Pickup artist . Or whatever you call yourself .

If you use openers, but yet still dont think openers work . Guess what , it will show.... It will show and this is why you can get shut down instantly . When you have confidence in your BL or your tone or Openers they work , because the confidence is displayed . If you dont believe in something , how would you follow it , without 100% belief ? its foolish .
0 belief = no nothing

ex: In basketball, if a shooter doesnt believe in his jumpshot he is going to be off that night. He will spend the whole night , thinking about this and worrying about that .

When a shooter is on, hes freelancing . Just shooting ,hes confident in his shot and doent hesitate to shoot at all .

in Gaming. A new Be trys an opener that he heard was "field tested" it has worked for everyone else ... how could it fail ? This then gives the new be confidence in this opener .

That same new be creates an opener . It hasnt been field tested , and is fairly new . He trys it without 100% belief and falls flat on his face . He then blames this on the opener , and scraps it.... then goes back to the known opener .

This is game and this is how it works . Everything starts with your inner game , Confidence being 1 of the major aspects . Then it leads to outter game . If you follow these steps you cant go wrong , its impossible, and you will become that much better .

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Adrians Post on Frame Control

2008-10-22T05:24:00.000-07:00

MASSIVE value Adrian. Props

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Frame Control: Control of the topics of focus and the meanings that are assigned to them.

This means leading the interaction not just from venue to venue but also conversation topics and controlling the flow of the interaction. You don't have to initiate every topic. You can also give approval to topics that are brought up. From there not being afraid to transition to others and lead. This sweeps girls off their feet. They really don't have to do anything.

In application 90% of the time from my own experience you'll have the frame in the beginning of the interaction. This is done because you are the one that started the conversation. She just was there. From there she will test your frame to see how strong it is. She throws congruence tests or even tries to take it away. A lot of the time for me I notice that whenever I lose it, it starts a chain reaction and the hook won't be that strong. Granted investment on her part is a crucial part of the process but if I am not steering things I lose it.

The second part of the definition is important because you are showing that no negative frames are going to be painted onto you. Things like "by X you mean Y" is exhibiting that you are not allowing yourself to be placed in a negative context that she sets up. You're in control of your own reality. Others will not dictate it. Humor is placed in this because I've found without it it only creates a tense interaction which leads to nowhere.

I see this all the time with naturals or people that can "flip the script". M8king Moves has posted countless examples. They essentially have frame control internalized. You don't have to acknowledge tests either. As long as you're displaying no emotional reaction to the test, AND by continuing the way things were you're not falling into that you should be fine. That's what I've found anyways. An example would be "you're a player". I could answer it in some crafty funny way and "reframe" it or spin in a positive way or I could ignore it and not acknowledge it and continue the way things were.

The stronger frame always wins. The weaker one will fall into the stronger one. The problem that I had for months and months with this is that it creates a competitive spin. Tim calls it the "you vs me". It was terrible because I found that even if I beat the girl in some way that I wasn't getting the lay. I think that's a reason why adding sexual spins are so effective to the interaction. They are a common ground for men and women to enjoy. If it is constructred correctly, noone should lose. I like sex and so does she. I had one girl that was very timid and shy and somewhat geeky so I didn't initially bring sex as a conversation topic. I'm finding though that with more confident women I can. I've read that it's not a good idea to do it with strippers because it indicates outcome dependence. I've never tried it. The point is you can still lead and dominate but in a context that is positive for both people. Frame bridging, you + me, whatever you want to call it.

Unreactivity is a concept that is incorporated with this topic. Now imagine two frames in the interaction. The one that is less reactive to the other will be the stronger of the two. I essentially don't want to jump emotionally as a result of her. Here's an example

What do you like to do?
I like to dance.
Oh really, I love dancing actually/Where do you go dancing?

Ultimately based on her answer we're reacting more than she is reacting to us.

Better example ...

You look like you can't dance
Excuse me! I CAN dance.
Let's go dance.

In this example by causing her to qualify herself, she is reacting to me. It is also showing that I am leading the interaction. This is a very typical me V you scenario. Here's a good example of a you + me scenario. I got this from Alex.

OMG I love this song. Let's dance -grabs arm and pulls her to the dancefloor.

In this scenario, he has established that he is in his own reality and brings her into it.

Last thing I've found and I got this from Ratisse, in one of his FRs. If you're hitting pretty good emotional buttons, she will try to frame you as entertaining. You can blow up her frame and make it funny.

You need to entertain me. I'm bored.
What about my needs?

Don't come off like a wimpy girl obviously. It should be funny. She'll laugh though and you can get her to invest more or do some of the fun conversation. Whatever.

The focus that I try to push is control. I'm not a control freak by any means. I'm pretty boring and blah. I find though that by falling into her vision of the scenario that I usually won't get where I want to go. I don't have to pick every single topic to discuss. I don't have to change her view on the world(I try to avoid all negative conversation topics, politics, religion, exes, money). I just try to be myself and have fun and include her in that. If she tries to put a negative dynamic on something, I really don't care. I just don't want her to take control. This is something that will put you in your head to death if you get super analytical about it like I just did. Rule #1 is a lot deeper than people think. You can't frame control someone that lives things the way they want to.

This is why amusing yourself is so important. I try to come into set at times and joke joke joke. If I push it too much it comes off like I'm doing it for them When I am not able to continue that, it's weird. I've lost it. They are giving approval to it. Now I try to have fun in all interactions with people unless it's not appropriate. This way it's a habit. I'm doing it because I want to have fun with myself.

Also if the girl purposely goes unreactive, you can tease her and call her out on her behavior. I got that from Tim's blog, Manwhore, and Charles Ou.

That probably covers most of establishing conversational dominance. (Leading it and giving approval to covered topics). "Being the screener"

2. Big displays of dominance.

The biggest one I've found is leading. I can talk talk talk but if I can't transition that to another place I lose it. I can get stuck in that place that we met in her mind (club guy, work guy). As a side note, I think it's essential to bounce around conversation topics on the first meet because it will help take you out of that place as club guy. "This guy likes to swim, bike, hike, does art, travels, races cars, salsa dances, plays sports, eats different kinds of foods, does martial arts, sings, hunts, reads, works with kids, creates things, or works out. He doesn't just come to clubs and pick up girls."

Some of you guys out there might notice that when you talk to your wings, you only talk about pickup. Then strangely enough you find out a month later that you guys are both into something else besides pickup. Now, honestly, if you guys hadn't painted that strict dynamic off the first meet of you both liking pickup and seeing each other as the wing don't you think you'd of found out that you liked the same shit sooner than a MONTH LATER!

Now take that same breakdown and expand it. You're talking to her and then you change locations. It could even be in another part of the club at first and escalate to another bar. This also crystallizes you as a person. What you're doing is you're getting rid of that "I didn't know you liked..." I hope that's clear. A lot of times you get this mental twitch when you see someone outside of the context you painted them. "I didn't know you liked..."

More importantly you're setting up a context that she is following you. You are leading things. She will get comfortable at this role. I have this habit of letting people lead. It's terrible and I'm trying to break it. Sometimes I fall into it. The thing I have noticed though is that once it's set as to who the leader is it becomes comfortable to lead. You don't have to think about leading. Interestingly, at times with people if I'm not leading I feel uncomfortable. Girls want the guy to lead off the bat. They are so used to leading though out of habit that if it becomes apparent that they have to they will.

Alpha girls are great social examples of leaders. They are comfortable confronting managers, policmen, and superiors about their issues. This is the truth. There are always exceptions of course. There are plenty of timid girls that want things dictated to them. I just try to get a sense of the type of person they are. The number one thing I find is show them that you can lead. You can take the reigns but don't be a control freak. Girls don't like control freaks. Honestly if you try to lead her through her life, right off the bat anyways, she'll push you away. Dominance is important but if anything can be overdone. I think that overbearing control freaks are actually good examples of weak people that HAVE to have things the way they want them.

There are exceptions galore in this. Tyler talks in Foundations how girls are able to quit smoking with him because he doesn't allow them to smoke around him. Tim told a story of a girl that hated house music and insulted it then when she went to meet him at his club she was totally transformed into a house music girl.

You can also escalate dominance. The compliance ladder is a good example. It begins by getting the girl to do small things and then escalating to bigger things. A small thing that I've seen could be "take off one heel, I want to see how tall you are". They start to get into this pattern of following you.

I just want to get to the point where when I'm leading she is comfortable with that. I don't really want to lead her hand and foot personally. I want a real woman that can take care of her own shit that has goals and a path. If I can pick up a girl and she is TOTALLY RELAXED and comfortable and trusts me, I'm where I want to be or very close.

I'm finding that girls are closers. If they want it bad enough they will take some initiative to find a way. I don't have to (or want to) diagram every little step.

Exceptions:

There are ALWAYS exceptions. Some guys aren't afraid to tell girls to "shut the fuck up". Some guys aren't afraid to tell girls "No, we're going to do this". You have to gauge it. The biggest thing I've seen is that if you're going to come strong like that, don't question yourself. There must be no sign of weakness at the CORE. If it's an act, you'll get slapped. If it's a good act, you're not getting a call back. If it's how you really feel on the inside, it will work or you're not getting a call back because she thinks you're a control freak to the core(just being honest).

Two things I'm finding with AVERAGE girls is that it's always a balancing act between DOMINANCE and EMPATHY. You do things you want to do but you have to have the compassion for her. Remember...exceptions, exceptions, exceptions. Some guys can kick a girl out of their house. "Get the FUCK out" when they get LMR and that WILL work for some girls. The girl will accept that her behavior was wrong and fuck him the next time. Others that will not work. It's a balancing act. Understand though that that girl was comfortable being lead by that guy so much that she accepted the frame that he put on her that her behavior was inexcusable.

A good example is if you're taking a girl to dinner, choose the restaurant, get the waiter, hold court. If it's fondu though and she can't eat cheese, don't go to fondu. See the empathy?

Now choosing the restaurant, getting the hostess and talking to the waiter are examples of a good lead. What if you order her food for her? It might work if she trusts you soo much and you can sell it as something that's amazing. It might not work because you're being a control freak over her life. It all depends on the person. I want a girl that wants to order for herself. That is my dream. For anyone out there that read this whole post, what I'm finding is the tens or turbos are the girls that want to order. If you try to take that away from them, you're not going to be chosen. She's probably had experience with a guy that was a control freak. Hot girls with dickheads ring a bell? I'm finding that if I sit back at times and let her do those types of things I stand out incredibly. There are always exceptions. I hope that is easy to understand. If you're an A, B, C step type of person you're going to have to get out of that headspace. This comes down to intuition. Some you can lead by the nose, others you can't.

The reason I talk about it in so much detail is because that is my biggest sticking point. I still need a lot of work on it. A lot. I hope that helps.

everything that I have used as an example, I myself have done in real life except for the extreme stuff like "STFU". I understand your objections to taking any bird's advice from a forum but I hope you can view it objectively. I hope you understand that being open to advice from a forum is only going to help you in the long run. I hope that post helped you.
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LR: Sex on My Lt's Desk

2008-10-22T05:10:00.001-07:00

LR starts after the stars

I am at War. Well America is at war . Im just one of the souls grabbed to go fight for this country .

My Morale : Mellow
Stress lvl: None
I don't love War, I just love life

Recently I changed bases as the 1st Lay Report says . My new Base is full of people , lot of activities . Alot more to do . Its entertaining . Glorious .

Every day is just a number , I dont follow days ... By doing so Im watching time . I just know its 1 less day until I return back to the states .... back to my glorious home

As anywhere else being stationed on foreign countries does not include patrolling every day with a vest and weapon .... No this is a misconception .

I have a job and on a daily bases that job is carried out .

I work alone at nights sometimes accompanyed by a Shift Nco . Last night I worked alone . A jar head that I've met about a week or so ago is suddenly all over me

Why ?
How ?

Because I know how to make it that way. Shes 5'6 slim waist nice ass . hair about neck length glasses and a cute face . Hb 7.5 , Hb 8 when she's not in uniform . Lets call her Hb Jarhead or JH .

When I first started working , she obviously was the center of a lot of attention . Guy's swarming her, in her office all day every day . This is Iraq people . 5's get treated like 10's and 10s barely exist . Chodeisim is the new word for the new breed of chodes . SO these chodeist orbit Hb JH in search of validation , attention , and someone to just devour there value . But Hb Jh is not a stuck up prick . She treats the chode's like human beings .

I for one would not join such a band wagon parade and simply pay her no attention at all . This builds that fire in her .

Her "Why does he not talk to me ? Is there something wrong with me ? Is he gay ? Does he think im ugly ? Is he married ?"

She approached me 1 night as I am walking to my office , asking some chodeist question . But suddenly My breathe is taken away by the view of the night and the stars . I am not simply ignoring her , just the stars at this moment are gorgous . She notices , and i say
Sin: If only they were this beautiful in the city .

We fluff, then i leave ... im exhausted , sometimes doing nothing is hard work . I give her an open invite to come by my office anytime she feels , she accepts and I leave . Over a week or so she comes by my office and i know that she's into me . So i game her, i make her want me more , I want to make sure that this is not just a female looking to just get the validation of a sex worthy guy and then leave him . No i make sure that if I invest time its going to happen ... PERIOD

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LR starts here

She's in my office , I tell her sit down we're going to watch a movie . While watching "Kung Fu Panda" I start getting real physical with her .

Pull here , push there , neck grab here , bite here .

She's turned on .... No SHES REALLY TURNED ON , then I cool down and get into the movie . She's shocked, takeaway ? No the movie just got real interesting all of a sudden . JH starts touching me more , leaning into me ... I check the time 2 hours left ...

I grab her bite her neck she moans ...grab head make out hardcore . Shirt tucked in ? Why --- Shirt comes out . Bite her neck again , then her breast ... she wet already i see her rubbing her self thru her jeans . I unbuckle them and starts to play with it from outside the panties .. um boy shorts

I turn up the movie then stand her up and throw her on the desk . She keeps repeating
HbJh: Your Trouble
Your Trouble
YOUR TROUBLE

I know , but you like it .... So shutup

more make out , trousers down to her ankles . Its a bitch taken these damn combot boots off . I instruct her , "take them off"

she replies no ...

No different to me , Bend her over on the desk .... Finger Jam of glory
I pull out King Lianitis ( I have my own name two bitches) she grabs him . She's moaning so hard its unbelievable this is when I remembered where we were .

Sin You want this dick don't you .... DONT YOU
JH : Yes Daddy , I Want it

Bend her over completely, *** Fuck condoms are in the next room,shit shit shit .... why didnt i pocket them ? O well Lianitis is going into battle without a helmet today *** She's over the desk I Send in the King ... She screams , I cover her mouth .... she bites .... I like it .....

30 second later Lianitis is overwhelmed in battle and withdraws .... But spits all over her back haha ( what ! its been like a month !) , She came , shes out of breathe and im already , ready for round 2 .... This time i take 1 pants leg out so we can be alot more comfortable .

We go at it for about an hour or so the second time , I didn't come again frankily I was exhausted . She was dried up by now . Panting and trying to catch her breathe . My Lt's desk look like we had a water fight in his office . We clean up and i unlock the front door .

The chode walks in , he seems up set
Chode: JH I was looking for you blah blah blah

She gets up and goes with him , then returns to me and is hugged up on me . A work Fuck buddy huh , yeah I can do this every night . I get back to my room so exhausted that I barely signed on in time to turn in my school assignment .

GLORIOUS

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Fit-To-Win Challenge

2008-10-01T04:12:00.000-07:00

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

recently I have started slacking as far as gym visits and maintaining what took me so long to gain . Reasons ? lazyness , Before at my old base there was nothing to do so I had no reason NOT to workout . Here , shit I can find a million reasons to stay in my room ! But Im going to start changing that starting today October 1st . In approx 11 days I have a physical fitness test . as many push ups and situps that your body will allow you to do in 2 mins . And best time ran for 2 miles . Pretty simple huh ? Well i havent ran in a while dude to my "stitches" . Fucking A !!! My goal for the Pt test ? Run less than a 15 minute 2 mile . It may seem impossible to those who dont work out , and seem like nothing to you marathon junkies . But I am 25 pounds heavier than I used to be , and If i implemented running into my daily routine I would be losing all the mass im struggling to gain during the workout . So here is my challenge

Starting today October 1st 2008 , I will dedicate at least an hour to the gym per day . ( An hour ? ) It is proven that a person only needs 45 minutes to an hour for a complete workout . In this hour I will target 1 or 2 muscle groups per session and work my abs as well . The Ab's is the fastest recovering muscle in your body , you cant overwork your abs . Once you are finished working out your abs may feel as if it needs a few days off but it usually recovers within a moments . I will dedicate myself to form and delivery . And not how many reps I can do or how much weight ( thats the rookie way of working out )

I haven't swam since i was about 6 or 7 . Due to a near death experience I have avoided the pools . The most I'll do now is wad in water . I have a female (hot one at that ha offering to teach me how to swim) Once i perfect the art of swimming I will go swimming at least 3 times a week . Swimming could become a major part of a persons workout , due to the fact that it is a total body workout .

I entered Iraq June 4th at approx 162 pounds . I am currently 185 . My goal is to leave Iraq in March of 2009 200 pounds and toned . I dont like the "overly muscular look" It doesn;t fit me . I'm aiming for a nice tone'd shape , with cuts but not Mr Olympia size .

I can't really help my diet due to the food being served, but I will maintain it as best as possible . I will update my blog every 2 to 3 days to give you guys a heads up

FUCKING AYE !

oh yeah John Fit-To-Win sounds better 8P

The Life i choose , Is the life I live

2008-10-01T03:07:00.000-07:00

Whats good World !!!

Im back (stretching and shaken off the cob webbs)
Finally ! Its been a while since my last pot . July 30th yikes , well from here on I will try and post on a 1 or 2 day basis . Depending on if the situation permits that is .

I have currently changed bases . I was moved back to my home station base , or my main station . Out here in country on small bases you do a minimum of 3 months if your sent out there . The base I was on sucked fucking ass . Yeah I said it ! The water was horrible a month later and I still have dry skin spells . The food was mediocre and the portions were small , they fed us grown men like step children . Other than that I made the best out of my time out there , I managed (somehow) to add 25 pounds from my current weight in may where i was 160 . My body is alot more tone before I was alot leaner and slim . My chest is bigger , my arms is bigger , my body is more defined .... and I even grew a gut !!!! Females ? there are none, well there were a few . Most of which were higher rank or wasn't worth any type of attention . Its cool though I can wait , it'll make my time at home that much more enjoyable .

But the base im on now , a better gym facility , basketball courts , alot better options and portions of food , swimming pool , females , I can take care of school here also . So basically lets just say I was kinda anticipating the switch 8) .

I started school on Monday for the first time in what felt like forever , things just wasn't falling into place as far as school . And every time I tried to set it up , a small problem would always be there keeping me from starting . But I started and I am completely focused on the task at hand . By the end of my deployment my semester should be finished , and I will need one more semester after that to get my degree . When Im focused on something my mind targets and locks on to it , so it'll take something drastic to change my mind about it .

As far as gaming goes ..... Im still on the ball 8) . I haven't fell off the horse just yet Im fucking confident as shit in my self , so whether its online or females on my base I can just feel the interaction as if its something physical . A few weeks ago before i left my old base , there was this female that just got there . Her face was cute , i'll give her a solid 7.5 but her body was exactly what i usually go for . Nice ass tits were fucking NYCEEEEEEEEEE !!!!! So anyways she has this orbiter , he's a cool guy fucked up thing is he just proposed to his girl now hes trying to fuck this girl . Whatever ! But he's one of those orbiters that wont quit . Wont give up . Even though there is a clear sign that reads : Hell No . So everyday he gets her in the morning , they go to eat together , they go to the px (store) together , they go to the computer lab together . He walks her to her , and then he's gone and she's by herself . But once she wants to leave hes there ! So one day he isn't around and she's sitting next to me in the cpu lab . She initiates a small conversation with me and notices that im on myspace and requests me . Im real lax about the situation , give it to her and then leave . So for the following 2 days she starts messaging me on myspace , basically chodeversation on her part trying to get me to commit to chasing her . I resist and just tell her that one day i'll come whill with her before I leave . 2 days of messaging and we decide to chill a Wensday night . I see her that afternoon and its me and my battle , she stops me and catches up to me to talk . And she hits me with the laser eyes " I want to fuck you" is imprinted all over her face , its fucking glorious . I tell her again ," Ill see you later" and my battle mentions the laser eyes .

That night I knock on her door around 11 or so , she just got back to her room . Were talking and then I drag her to my door try and avoid running into the orbiter . So were in front of my room , I'm sitting back leaning and she's standing . So basically she starts thowing out MAJOR CLUES that she wants to fuck . I don't chode out , I just play the interaction mellow and slowly start the sexual interaction .
She: Omg you have sexy lips , your attractive .... blah blah blah blah , I love tall guys ..... blah I love dark skin males ...

The whole time I zone in and out of what a nice piece of ass this could be . Long time for the both of us , Oh your from boston ? time to have some of this Ny dick .

She mentions that her shoulders are tight , I tell her turn around .... She moves about full arms length away from me but lets me massage her . Sorry hunny , where im from this shit works my way at all times .... SO get used to it . Regardless of the distance I start to pull her in slowly , slowly , slowly ..... slowlyyyyyyyyyyyy .
*Note to readers . When seducing a female , you want it to look as if she's making the moves even if she isn't . You want to pace and lead in some ways . Pace them in a direction and watch them follow your lead . So instead of me walking closer to her , I just pull her towards me . SHES MAKING THE MOVES NOT ME, AND BY HER NOT OBJECTING SHES AGREEING **

So once she is up close to me i tilt her head to the side .... * compliance. I get close to her neck kiss it lightly, enough to leave it wet and then gently blow on it (this shit drives females wild btw). Then she stops and mentions some guy she's talking to . How they don't go out but they talk "seriously" and that she doesn't want to hurt his feelings . This is considered absolute bullshit to me and doesn't even register . After a minute i pull her back towards me and start kissing her neck more , turn her around and pulled her in . *makeout* She mentions bf again . But procceds to grab my dick thru my basketball shorts . All of this in front of my baracks its dark outside because there isn't any moon light and theres rarely any activity this late . She's still paranoid , so I pull her to the side of the building in the shadows . Grouping , kissing , dick pulling, tittie nibbling glory . She mentions " I should go back to my room" but this comment is ignored . Then she mentions again and I realized , she's inviting me back to her room . And if this isn't what she meant , this is what I concluded 8P . We get to her room and she walks in , I walk in right behind her ... while closing and locking the door . I push her on the bed .... makeout galore clothes flying . But I don't decide to fuck right away , I want to enjoy this moment . I tease her fourplay finger jams and all . Rub my dick all around the pussy , her juices al over me .... I love it . Then i proced to fuck the shit out of her for a few hours . After the 1st round , she says "omg what am I going to say to him ? I feel bad now"
Sin: Ready for round 2 ?
She: already ? ok lets go

Best Pt so far in my tour 8P

a day later I leave that base , and she still contacts me via email . Also I have this other female who I gamed and was planned to fuck but she left . She Lives in Cali and is planning to come to Vegas for some good ol Sin Dick ! I love it

My Morale is High , I think alot of it has to do with Mr Tolle and the Power of now . I am not stressed , depressed , suffering problems of any sort . I am just relaxing enjoying every day as if its my last . Because by all means it could be , any day I could as well as anyone else . What do I have to show for it ? Did I live in fear of society ? Or did I do as I wanted because I felt like I should . I never let the thoughts of others influence me and what I do . Opinions are greatly appreciated but can only affect me as much as I allow .

Period .

If im missing anything it will follow in the next post

Ciao

PS Smooth its your go !

Seduction at its best

2008-07-30T04:27:00.000-07:00

For those who have read Robert Greene's book "The 48 laes of power" This is law 28 .... the law is entitled
"Enter Action With Boldness"

the title says it all . But let me quote a paragraph from the book

"Part of the charm of being seduced is that it makes us feel engulfed, temporarily outside of ourselves and the usual doubts that premeate our lives. The moment the seducer [U][B] HESITATES, the charm is broken , because we become aware of the process , of there deliberate effort to seduce , of the the illusion alive" [/B][/U] - Robert Greene

This explains END game in the best way known to man . If you become unsure of yourself then you hesitate and she becomes aware of the process . This then throws a huge wrench in the problem and the thought of "it just happening" because now theres attention on it . And once theres attention involved [U][B] LOGIC IS INVOLVED AND EMOTIONS ARE TOSSED OUT THE WINDOW [/B][/U] thus killing the "Moment" and maken it harder to get the lay . But if you dont hesitate and the moment just happens .... no second guessing yourself or the moment then it has no choice to happen because the emotions sweep thru the moment and it HAPPPENS !!!

Same thing as gaming a female

Tyler mentioned it in the blueprint " The moment she sees you flinch or retreat back into tour head your done"

And why would someone flinch or retreat back into there head ??? because there unsure of thereself and everything happening at the moment ...

FUCKING AAAAAAAAAAAAA

no better way to put it, comments plz

another comment found in the book ...

"But with those who have made an impression upon your heart. I have notices that you are timid. This quality might affect a bourgeoise, but you must attack the heart of a women of the world with other weapons ... I tell you on behalf of women: there is not one of us who does not prefer a little rough handling to too much consideration . Men lose through blundering more hearts that virtue saves . The more timidity a lover shows with us the more it concerns our pride to goad him on: The more respect he has for our resistance the more respect we demand of him ... " - Ninon De Lenclos

Come On fellas

Mid July .... Temp is rising

2008-07-17T07:45:00.000-07:00

it is currently July 17th ..... 1800 in Iraq

I have been living this Overseas life the best way i can , doing shit I would have never imagined before i joined the army ....

Helicopter recons ???? yeah fucking right I never even flew before bootcamp ... Now im flying over "possible danger areas" hoping nothing happens to the Bird that im in .... Every night thinking the man above for another day with no incidents, waking up and hoping to wake up the next day ...

This is Iraq ..... over 100 degrees by 1000 ,

It is a crime to think of selling water,
if you dont drink water by 1400 you could be a heat casulty
you walk outside, and you sweat ...
you sit in a porta potty taken a shit you sweat ...
every part of your skin that is not covered is tanned badly ...

if your white your tanned a dark red ...
if your any shade of brown you become a dark brown or black

I ............ Love ............ IT !!!

The various people of different cultures and ethnicity talking conversing , sharing different aspects of there lives . There experiences its crazy ...

its geting hot out ... hot is not even the word ... ITS SCORCHING

Ive met Navy Seals
Ive met Special Forces for the 1st time ,
Ive met different Marines ( There actually not "that" bad )
Ive met Iraqi Natives
Alot of British mercenaries
Aussies

its INCREDIBLE

Also for the first time ever ....
ever
ever
ever
EVERRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR

I received a coin ...

For those who are unfamiliar ... a coin is like a medal given to a person for there outstanding work for whatever they were doing ...

I was issued a coin by a Navy Seal for my outstanding work in support to his battalion .... I love my job !!!!!!!!!

Hoooahhh mates
and POOOOAH GAMERS !!!

We dont choose to play .... LIFE IS THE GAME

2008-07-04T04:46:00.000-07:00

There are TONS of people including myself that may think that theres always " an exception " to the rule . That "gaming" wont work in certain situations or on certaiin females .

Our mind rationalizes with this theory and we tend to come up with excuses as to why we shouldnt talk to certain females . Or why we shouldnt approach certain females certain ways because we feel that the time doesnt feel right . Or whatever other logical explanation our mind thinkz up . Actually females like it better when a guy can act like himself no matter whos watching, because it shows in the future he will always "let himself shine thru" If your always being you no matter what , and talking to sexy ass girls regardless of what the situation dictates its a HUGE TURN ON ....

Im currently located in an area where theres a 70:1 ration of guys to girls . theres only about 800 the most in our location . And theres only about 3 attractive females here .

Basically the females know this, the guys know this ... SO now all these guys have to be on there A game just to get play. So you have your usual chodes, then the chodes with game and then you have your naturals .

As we all know the nice guy approach or friend approach is the most COMMONLY used approach . Basically you go no where with it , bcuz EVERYONE does it . But yet 99% of the time it doesnt work .

Basically someones mind might think that the female may want to be treated nicely or differently , or if you give your value for her attention that it'll be easier to have sex with her , or that by playing the nice guy role that you INCREASE YOUR CHANCES.

WHen in all actuallity your KILLING THEM , and once you come off as un sex worthy .... its hard to make them believe otherwise .

Fact: Regardless of the circumstances, the enviorment or any other type of bad logical setup . YOU MUST TREAT THAT FEMALE AS IF THOSE PROBLEMS NEVER ARISED . Female in a large group, you think shes sexy but wont approach because the "dynamics" arent right . Or you dont approach because shes with a guy, or a couple of guys. By you overcomming this and not acting like the chodes in the crystal how could she not build attraction towards you .

The female with the huge breast and sexy smile that works at the grocery store .... but you dont game here because it may be an "inapproriate time". The librarian that gives you the eye when you pickup your books but you dont game here because you cant speak to loud .

Or the chick in the club because its to loud !!!

fuck logistics , my theory

Bad Logistics + The balls to over come the shitty logistics = The pull being that much more successful and WORTH THE TIME ....

Who wants an easy pull anyway ? whats the excitment in that ?

This is not Pickup, this is gaming . And in games the players are chosen they do not choose to play.

Understood ???

Cheerz Matez !

Update of Mr Bankz 8)

2008-06-07T09:02:00.000-07:00

I will live my life to the fullest, finding everyting i HAVE to do exciting and everything i want to do godly .... Dont feel sorry for me I Love everymoment of my glorious life

I thought of this quote and i Love it , because my life up to this moment has been beyond exciting , Alot of people have asked me about my recent trip To Miami in which i Didnt post any fr's nor lr's even though some of the chicks out there changed my perspective of gaming and i learned alot . I didnt post because for the last few weeks i havent had a computer and time to gather all my thought over the last few weeks .

those that know me may know that I give off energy and hope, VALUE ? I used tto suck the guys we look up to as guru's dry of almost everything they knew and lucky for me they tolerated it ( Even though i have apoligized to those indiviuals lol ) But now i offer more value than alot of people may believe i have . Never really wanted to be anything except more successful with females ...... and now those same social skills i was focusing on females im using to make myself and my social circle better .

In ways i miss the shit out of NYC ..... The stink ass manhattan blocks , The girls i fucked or were close to , my friends , my music , and most importantly my Wings. Without my wings i would be so many levels behind were im at currently that i would feel i have progressed none ....

But as much as i miss NY and the people that make it the beautiful as city it is today I love what im doing now . I dont just love it because im told to accept the present .... fuck no . In the last few months in the army i have done more than ive ever iimagined .

8 mile road marches on icy road with a full combt load ...
5 mile runs
weeks upon weeks of trainingwith limited days off
spending day in the field sleeping on cotts with 100 people to a tent .
convoys

visiting other parts of the US
Texas , New Mexico ... Miami for Vacation , Maine

other parts of the world
Germany , Kuwait and now Iraq .

flying in Air force tactical planes that drop tens of thousands of feet in seconds , taken tactical helicopter rides across Iraq .... Setting up shop in a small cop and running this shit like my squad has been together for years ... when its been a few weeks.

Fuxking glorious !!!! Got to mingle with British troops and a swarm of Marines .

Its beautiful , and yet im still ready to pick up my Rucksack and drive into towns if i have to ..... You learn alot being thrown into various cultures and religons that various things about your culture tend to stand out more ....

I love it !!!!!!!!!!!!

By the end of the year i might bounce around some more who knows ....

But a few highlights of Miami ...

the few weeks off definetly had me with a mental block about my skills which i quickly dismissed.

Dan took me to Hard Rock and I turned into a demon possessed and started opening sets . Hit a bartender with Laser eyes she started to smile but just couldnt break EC ... we enjoyed our own bubble in which the music and everything around us went quiet in this extremly loud and crowded venue

She finally breaks the silence

HB: lol umm may i help you
Sin: maybe

I order and afterwards she walks over and asks my name , i flirt a lil and then tell her ill return ...

Im pumped

Re enter the club, Floods of people walking in .... Who is worthy of sucking in this value that i Have to give ....

Wing opens 2 set, 2 hot girls very sexy one of them is talking the other gets bored so he ejects . I then notice another chode enter the set and they pull the lesbian routine on him .... he falls for it they hug and he leaves ..... So I walk in calmly right on the girls left and lean against the bar

I start the interaction

Sin (BR Tone) You two ladies are by far the sexiest ladies in here, congratulations ...

Smiles and giggles they say thank you I shake both of there hands and at this time there RSD has just filtered everyone out in the venue , there was no music , no liquor , no chode's there was us in our very small yet settle bubble ....

They walk towards me and the game is over before it starts

I can small the perfume scent lifting from there bodies and swirling around me as i stand there like a piece of meat to these wolves ... Its early and i just made there night

They both are showing me so much attention its uncanny , and i lean back and relax like it happens all night . This makes the interaction that much better, they were both fighting for my attention

I then offer to tell them a lil secret

Sin- This is my first night in miami, and i feel that i need to do alot more to enjoy it ...

They go wild and are eager to know more about me

In comes the wing they remember him but my energy was so high that even though he was gaming the second girl she was still focused on me .... my girl is touching me feeling me .... kisses me

I tell her about some CLub were supposed 2 be visiting later that night they both agree to the bounce.... My thoughts of wether i still have it or not is out the window , not only do i still have it .... But IT is stronger than it was before

This whole set doesnt last longer than 10 mins the bounce is set the girl is locked then out of left field age is brought up . Im 21 she figures after i try to evert the topic for a few and she finds out shes 10 years older than me . I tell her shes the hottest 31 year old ive ever seen and it doesnt change anything ---- No go . Somehow the topic of age in which she brings up just shattered her Ego and about all of her dreams , the topic doesnt change .... Shes not upset because im two young shes upset because shes to old . and its killing her to the point that she +plumets into a negative state , That I nor her friend can pull her out of I join my wings set his girl focuses back on me and then the girl i was gaming says she has to leave and drags girl two away .... Bummer

Next night we hit Prive exclusive club Kudo's to Dan excellent on gettting anyone in at anytime . We get in and i walk thru the venue feeling pumped full of Adrenaline .... I laser eyes females to death wanting to be approached and not be the aproachee but females are cowards there Ego wont let them do it .

I start to patrol ... Laser eye claw in "Hi Im Sincere"

That was Me

Thru the night
I swap tongues and ice with a few chicks , one of them is eextremly locked in and tells me " What happens in miami stays in miami"

I try for the pull but Dan wasnt getting anywhere with her friend , we switch then i go back to the original and shes not feeling the pull so i let them be .

Back to the female i grabbed in the crowd

As i walk past her eyes bore holes in the side of my face i walk past her , come up behind her and startle her hugged up her friends look at m e like im stupid i tease them a lil then get back to my girlie .... She's Cuban i believe ... sexy I love it escalate shes close she loves the atttention ----

Fatty interupts and tells me theyll be back ... she gives me her number and tells me to meet her the next day . We then leave and go to Space and i Am drained of all my life force in this venue where people dance and drink from 12am til 11 30 am NON stop .... I cant hang im exhausted and cant fight the temptation to pass out on the dance floor we go home i rest

Meet a model next day, she tells me that shes on some modeling show thats airing in a few weeks . I take it that she wants someone to be happy for her , but i show no attention to the comment and push forward ... Turns out she is .... bummer

Game ran solidly shes ready to Fuck, but its her last night in Miami so she wants to leave at the end of the night ..... its currently 1 30 and she wants to leave at 5 ....

Im exhausted from Space and cant make the extra 3 hours i tell her to call me 2morrow and we can hook up before she leaves she agrees .

I go to the hotel and sleep 2 hours before another girl i gamed calls me and asks me to drive to west palm to come see her ... Im currently in South Beach .... thats a 2 hour drive the most .... Sleep deprived but horny i drive get there take her to a hotel and fuck the shit out of her

I gave her the cock of glory and im sure she prayed to it a few times as she screamed . I plan to leave at 10 30 .... and at 1030 Hb Model calls me to have breakfast with her , FUCK !!! im 2 hours away i jump in the car and do 100 all the way back to South Beach , i get there shes waiting for me

Flight leaves in 45 mins .... no time O well

Ill be back in Miami real soon

untill then

Hooah !!!!

Alex~ Elite Congruence

2008-05-31T00:07:00.000-07:00

Elite Congruence.

Social robot: righto. (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r4rhX6iB-2o)

What I’m here to write about today is the notion of not being here to fornicate arachnids. A lot have asked me what the fuck does this mean. Fornicate means to have sex with, arachnids more obviously refers to spiders. We’re not here to fuck spiders, as in, were here to get down to business.

And, I believe this is an issue only relevant to this forum. I don’t think there is too many other guys encountering this problem. Only the sex-worthy guys of the world encounter this problem.

First, time to pre-establish the notion of sex worthy guy. This is the guy who is intrinsically higher value than the girl, indifferent, place of abundance, experienced positive and dominant. This guy exposes a girl to a range of emotions in the form of ‘chatting her up’. For a guy who is intrinsically higher value, his ability to attract her is simply a function of his ability to put his personality on the line. Charisma and a range of expression. Unapologetic.

Cool, established, onwards.

Now for these sorts of guys, lots get caught in some bullshit ego trap and think that it’s enough just to become the sex worthy guy and open less and play less ‘game’. If you don’t play by the rules, your simply not in the game. The alternate option is sitting on the side, drink to chest watching.

These sorts of dudes, if opened are magic. No doubt. The classic natural. However these naturals will never come close to the self actualized because they can’t do the most pivotal part of pick up…

The approach.

Alpha as he may be, rest assure that anyone reading this will always trump a man scared to risk a conversation with a girl. And in most cases, the self actualized man is learned of all possible contingencies, and can execute.

But the final hurdle that most guys make is the following. Their internal compass clicks form the entertainer man zone into the sexworthy guy zone. Identity level change. But overtly and logistically they then neglect that that is exactly what they have become and remain underneath their own glass ceiling of success.

Essentially, when a guy learns about game, he becomes the entertainer man. Enlightened and consciously aware of his game unconsciousness he learns some lines and gets out into the field. No more internet south park and less world of warcraft. As his experience compiles his inner game becomes more and more restored. And with the resources such as the forum, the Blog and our products his head is at the light speed thrust into the right space.

I did it, Tyler did it, Jeffy did it, so did ALOT of RSDNation.

Plasticity of the brain. People can learn. Internally you are sorted. But a lot of guys get into some weird negative headspace about the means and ‘tactics’ that once was the causality for closing.

“Pffft dude, check out that chode doing a palm reading. He must be a desperate **** creep. I wonder where he keeps his wand.”

As though they were above the game. They neglect to approaching too much, no one knows just how cool they are as they keep it bottled up inside of them, resting on their laurels. Don’t play by the rules and you’re not in the game.

Kinda like Paris Hilton. Paris, egotistically was under the impression that she was above the rules. That she was above reality as so many celebrities do. As a result: jail, out of the game. Same with rehabilitation or negative public image. A person’s value is only as potent as their application of their self.

There is incongruence when a man actually goes through identity level change and self actualization. He will feel that he no longer needs to ‘button push’ or palm read. That he his above it, which I certainly agree with. That sort of thing can be a great set of training wheels. But what then does he say?

Entertainer man says entertaining things, what does sexworthy man say?

Now, there is nothing wrong with saying the entertaining ‘routine’ type stuff. They are fun little social things. Except now, the self actualized individual is now coming from a different place. He is saying these things now to entertain himself, rather to engage and impress others. There is no outcome dependence. Like the music, it plays without intervention. Offering value to all whose ears it falls upon, but ultimatly is simply an expression of itself.

But once you make that transition all that ‘routinesy’ type stuff is all pretty chode and goes and hand in hand with peacocking and indirect methodology. Ultimately it’s incongruent with who and what you are as a guy.

Why can’t naturals fully ‘get’ logical processes? They don’t need to. Sure there would be a few principles and maneuvers that would amp their game but ultimately learning game is regression for a natural. A natural alpha male guy is intrinsically higher value. He naturally knows that if he just keeps on talking he will inspire the range of emotions in the girl. Simply the fact that he is a certain type of guy is enough. Higher value plus emotions equals attraction.

The learned sexworthy guy understand principles like escalation, realizes that its always on, and makes the most out of so may more opportunities than the born natural waiting for green lights to escalate and approach.

Once you make that mindset change from entertaining and sexworthy, stop entertaining and start being more sexual.

A lot of guys got laid more being the entertainer routine guy than making harmony with their new sexual state consequently repress it. Incongruence is a difference between the projected self and the actual self, ego and self esteem. Incongruent guys aren’t attractive, congruent guys are the definition of integrity and are attractive.

When you make the shift, get sexual. Direct, statements of intent. Dominant escalation with a positive frame. Unapologetic. You are what you are, embrace it, express it. Integrity is very attractive.

Usually this isn’t a problem for natural guys. They are the epitome of incorrigible. Alternatively the learned sexworthy guy needs to be aware of this incongruence and act through his own intentions. Cease the suppression of who and what he is and tell the girl what he’s thinking.

What words should he say and what actions should he make?

That’s a whole ‘nother ‘how to’ article.

The glory is in the game. And dreamtimes.

Alexander~

John~ Takes a BC Post

2008-05-30T23:49:00.000-07:00

I remember getting asked during my RSDChat if I had attended a bootcamp yet. (The chat is available on our wiki). I said no, and gave some snotty answer, I think.

At the time, that's where I was. Still a little snot. Still a little blind to things. Since then, the blinders have come off, in a big big way.

Lots of opportunities. Big changes in life. Not drunkjohn. John. John fully present. (Stay tuned for John 2.0, Charlie Kilo style, even if it kills me)

So I went to the Flawless Natural bootcamp. It was time. I was ready.

I met Alex and Jeffy. I should tell you exactly what this means. I didn't meet two guys who have "internet personas" or two guys dripping with ego because "we're instructors and you're not", I met two guys who I'd absolutely invite over to the house for snacks and play board games with. (And yes Alex, I'd buy soymilk for you)

The reality, or more specifically, the realness of these two guys is palpable. They know what the hell they're talking about. They take a really complicated subject matter, one deeply personal for a lot of people, and explain it to you in the same way you'd give directions to the gas station.

Not in the I'm-talking-down-to-you way, because you'll never feel like an idiot. Never ever.

That first night, I had some fun, kept moving, kept going....honestly, it was an okay night. Good scene, nice atmosphere, and I had fun. It gave me a chance to get a feel for what to expect, what I can do and brought me glimpses of what the next nights of bootcamp would be like.

Or so I thought.

Day 2 of the bootcamp...well, it needs a story all it's own.

We arrive at the club, and I completely didn't give a fuck. Self-amusement to the max. Let's just have a good time. If I'm me, vagina will come (ooh, a pun!), so no worries, let's have some laughs.

I meet some ladies on a bootcamp. No, not our bootcamp, they have their own bootcamp. FOR SEX. Yes, that's right. WOMEN TEACH EACH OTHER HOW TO FUCK.

Could there be a better group of people to meet on a bootcamp?

So I find a brunette (I have a thing for brunettes) with a fire in her soul (you know the type, the kind that really knows who she is and parties), and we start chatting.

That is to say, I'm just dancing in place and she walks up to me, puts her hand on my cock and introduces herself.

Fuck yeah, it's on. Her name is Robin, and she calls herself a Goddess. She's a student on this female-sex-bootcamp.

Let's chat. Better yet, Robin, introduce me to your lady friends. And give me that pink boa.

For I christen that boa, the BOA OF GLORY.

I cannot dance for shit. Not club-style. Give me a ballroom, or salsa, and we're good. But the basic club work? No sir.

Doesn't matter. I've got 1000000000% knowledge that I'm the man I'm supposed to be, and that I'm living life the way I want.

Attraction galore. Abundance? Without a doubt.

So Robin introduces me to Sarah, who introduces me to Beta, and Susan and some other woman who goes into my phone as "Sexy Travel Woman". We start chatting. I decide to walk away and check out how other people are rocking. Don't worry, I'll come back to them.

More chilling. More boa power. The wierd Asian staff-lady asks me if I want a table. I play dumb, saying that I'm not from here (hey look! John does a hybrid Scottish and Aussie accent!) but I'll get some friends together for a table.

BOOM, now we have a place to sit. But I don't sit there. Because sitting isn't enough action.

So I go rock around the club, back to these sex goddesses, who invite me to their private tables. Sure, it's cool, I'm having an adventure. Chat me up. Yes, you can use me as your male demo. My laser eyes and claw will smoke your little piddly unsubtle escalation, no doubt. Sure, we can makeout. No, not on your terms. All me, lady.

So I'm drinking who-knows-which-glass of champagne, and telling the waitress that yes, we need another bottle and I need a coke. Travel lady is chewing on my ear lobe, and her tongue is doing twists just in the nice part of the ear. She asks where I'm staying. I remember my third grade teacher. Wierd. But whatever. That's who she reminded me of.

I turn to my left, to Susan, a reformed stripper she tells me, and we get to chatting about how I want to scuba dive off The Bimini Road. (Google it). Good conversation.

She leans over. Hand to cock. Through the pants, she's found the balls. Good hands. Neat, I love this adventure.

Oooh, here comes Beta, dancing and talking to me. Hey, why is Susan opening my pants? Oh.....oooooh! Was that her tongue? Awesome.

To paint this scene, there's a blonde ex-stripper giving me a good tongue-lashing, there's a woman sucking on my ear, asking me to fuck all three of them, and there's a woman dancing in front of me telling me she got her clit pierced for her birthday.

How can I make this fun? How far can I go?

Let me check out this clit piercing. I'm somewhat of an expert in labial matters. Ooh, nice. Shaved. Glorious.

More drinking, and I get nicely put back together after Susan has dessert. Where's my mind? On cupcakes. I was hungry.

Let's go downstairs and dance, on two couches and a table. Makeouts to the max. Gropes galore. Ready to pull deluxe.

And then there's this drunk guy. I met him earlier, he wanted to know why I was a fascist American. He's Dutch. And drunk. I called him a "creepy guy" earlier, and he ran away to the bar. He's back now, and he's grinding on the couch, the way I've seen my dog do it. Odd. Now he's in my ear, telling me how I'm shit and can't fuck a woman because....

he wants to fuck me.

Dude, be cool, I'm just having a good time.

The Dutch bisexual is three seconds from getting a shove when I see Alex, who I think had his mouth agape. Oh thank god, time to POOF.

I leave the horny cougars and the drunk Dutch to do whatever they do.

That was the second night. I met my destiny, I met the guy who I was supposed to be, and in Dragonball Z style, we fused.

I know who I am. I know which way to go. I know what to do. I know what I want. Nothing stops me now.

Time for night 3.

Extremely exhausted and dehydrated and babbling utter nonsense (a bartender says she'd lick me clean if she could spray me with seltzer, I responded with, I'll spray you with something in return, here's my number, now give me a drink.)....night 3 is spent completely having fun. So much sober fun in fact that my bad dancing has the bouncers thinking I'm a stumbling drunk. Faggoty Agent Smiths. Douchebags with earbuds.

Whatever.

Let's just hang out. Bootcamp continues and oodles of glory happen in front of me. Happiness abounds.

In those 3 nights, doing everything from getting cabs to getting blown to arguing with a guy as to where a club was (he's a cab driver, how do you not know where something is? Fucking ask someone!), I earned that ~. I understand what it means now to be a transformed man.

To be a natural.

To be who I am meant to be.

To love life.

(This part is for Jared) so I head home, riding that wave of "holy-fuck-this-is-my-life-now" and there's a latina on the train. We should chat. She needs to know that I enjoy chocolate milk, and that when this train makes the next stop, we should go somewhere and talk. And by talk, I mean she should kneel in a train car bathroom and speak into the Dicktophone.

I earned my ~.

You want to earn yours? You take this bootcamp. Take the steps to change your life, no one is going to do it for you.

Seriously, come talk to me. Let me describe to you, let my voice show you the change.

Come live life. It's waiting for you. Are you ready?

Buddah~ SC Post

2008-05-30T23:40:00.000-07:00

Dudes, I just got back from New York City. I drove all night to get home and decompress my brain in the quiet hills. Just couldn't wait to crawl into my own bed and relax on Memorial Day. My whole life changed this weekend. Thanks again to RSD.

It wasn't one guy's wise soapbox aphorism, or some blessing conferred upon me from a master, or a magical pill that I swallowed at a meeting of the faithful that makes me say these thank yous. It was the total-picture experience: 5 great speakers, 3 days, all the awesome RSD interns & staff, going out with wings, hitting up the bars and clubs, debriefing afterwards, internalizing the concepts, and most importantly: MEETING GIRLS. Hot ones. Put it all together, and it's the *nail in the coffin* that I needed.

Buddha~ the "Baby PUA" has been born. Baby Buddha. A little 35 year old toddler running around the club and bangin hoes in different area codes.

See, everybody IS always looking for the magic pill that will solve everything. Me included. I admit it. We are socially conditioned to look for the next thing. Yeah, it's flawed thinking but it's inescapable.

So I realized a while back, though: there is no one single pill. Yet there is "therapy", as in the right kind of quality instruction, doled out over a period of time, with lots of time in-between for applying it myself. Emphasize the individual practice times, because you have to use the process of successive approximation, aka GUIDED trial-and-error, to get this game. Only reading about it definitely won't do it. Going to conference alone will not do it. Going out alone with no instruction will not do it in any reasonable time frame. Bootcamp alone won't do it. Winging a master won't in itself fix anything. All of these things put together will help, but most importantly I have to keep getting out on my own. It's the total picture that helped me achieve my desired goal.

My mind is still exploding.

It is abuzz with a Fuck Ton of information, and the mirror neurons are going BZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ from seeing and brushing up against the instructors' behaviors and attitudes. It's going to take weeks for things to settle down in there to the point where I can talk coherently about it. Right now I'm like a babbling idiot who just came back from the Oracle's volcanic cave at the top of Mt. Wanahakalugi.

Tim: Super charismatic and real, genuine, fun, engaging, with a simple message of strong sexual intent mixed with the Wooo! state to put the girl and me into a bubble of love. Standing there in the hallways outside the conference room during the break, he's interested in people - he's asking me questions about my life, and wanting to know more about me and what I think... just a real dude. Thanks man, you've changed my life.

Alex: I met Alex a year ago at the Blueprint SC in NYC, and took a boot camp with him. Alex has changed a lot since then. He's grown as a man; you can just appreciate how he's matured like a fine red wine with gorgonzola, on a cloudless crystal clear night on a rooftop bar somewhere in NYC, his banquet of advice displayed upon a table, beckoning me to take a few nibbles and try all this shit out for myself. His message of positive dominance and how to talk to girls in an emotionally-dynamic way was gold. Thanks, Alex.

Nathan: I had never met Nathan before and I was curious what this guy was all about. I'd say, of all the classroom instruction this weekend, Nathan probably helped me out the most with one simple message he had for me. You see, before this weekend, I thought I HAD to have this super-bright nimbus blazing like a 5-alarm fire... or even a super-nimbus but sort of cover it up so it's not so craaaaayyyyzeeeee in the club. No. Both of those are the wrong attitudes. Nathan said the right thing: "Be whom you're meant to be." I am a chill guy. I'm also a fuckin FUNNY guy. But I don't talk talk talk. I deliver one-liners and zingers and lay back in the in-between times. When I talk to people, I'm ok with dead air. I LIKE that space when I talk to people. When I'm Super Nimbus Man, it seems like I have to FILL all that space or I'm not doing my JOB as PUA or some bullshit belief like that. Nope. Nathan got me to give myself permission to just BE that chill social fun guy that I am. No need for extra filler. Be whom I'm meant to be. Nathan, thanks dude. It was a pleasure to meet you.

Ozzie: I hadn't met Ozzie either, and I wanted to know how this older dude could have such phenomenal success. What he said helped me immensely, as well. Physical game. With weak physical escalation, pick-ups go nowhere. Confirmed over and over this weekend was how my physical escalation game needs to be amped up. How I need to be unafraid to kino, and establish that rhythm instantly off the bat. Many many examples given. Broken down, piece by piece. Even a section on Day game and how to calibrate physical escalation there. So much to think about and apply from what Ozzie said. I'm glad I finally got to meet up with the Spaniard. Thanks for the excellent advice, Ozzie. You're a chill guy too and I appreciated getting to know you a bit.

Jeffy: "How soon not now becomes never." That's what Jeffy said when he rolled up to me on the rooftop bar on Saturday night. See, he was instructing a boot camp that night, but he took 5 minutes to come over and talk to me, take my pulse. I was standing there alone. I think he knew things were different with me than a year ago. It was about 11:30 pm. I was chilling alone up on the terrace. I had made a few approaches, winged with Law_NYC some, talked to some girls, talked to some guys. I was definitely in state, but Jeffy must have seen something from a distance: that I was in danger of stalling and sputtering. In a very uncharacteristically gentle way he gave me a push. "What are you DOING up here dude?" He asked. I knew I was choding around too. I gave some bullshit answer. He rolled his eyes back up towards the Empire State Building, brightly lit in the New York sky, "How soon not now becomes never."

"Yeah, you're right dude. Time to take action. It was great seeing you man," I said. I turned heel. Right, and I mean RIGHT in front of me, Toli is engaging a 2-set of 9s. One is looking particularly sparkly that fine evening. Her eyes like clear pools of radiant sexual energy, churning with desire.

I take two steps forward. They are mid-joke, laughing, eyes are on Toli. They are already hooked. They are intrigued. But the set needs something, a little extra push. Oh yeah. ME.

Eyes go to me; I'm smiling. I'm relaxed. "Don't let me interrupt," I say, "I was just drawn here like a moth by the Australian accents." Everyone laughs. Boom. Set blows open. I hear a faint whistle on the wind somewhere off in the city. Toli is into the long-haired vixen to my right, and I'm into the other girl to my left. Modestly hidden large rack, tight ass, long fine legs, cute face. They look like they're both about 25 or so. Australian accents are so fucking hot. I give my girl the laser eyes with a slowly growing smirk, nod my head at her like, "Yes, I know, and you know too, don't you? Yeah, you do."

Claw deployed around her shoulders. Pull her into me . Release. We're smiling. We're talking about who the fuck knows what, because we're in the bubble. I put out my hand, she grabs it and I keylock her around her back with my arm and pull her into me. She's looking up into my eyes, giving me compliments. Asking questions about me, which I am answering honestly, because she's genuinely interested in me and who I am. So I tell her about my life, my dreams, my current projects and successes. I go for the makeout. Denied! She says she's shy and doesn't want to kiss in the club, she's self-conscious.

Jeffy comes up to take pics and says, "Kiss!!!" I go in for the kiss, but she's shy, won't do it for his camera even! Damn!

We keep talking. Game isn't over yet. A few minutes later, I go for the makeout again. Once again denied. Wow, this is strange I say to myself. She really IS shy.

Time to take action.

I turn around, and this other random girl in a very silky smooth dress is standing there. Her hair is framing her face perfectly. She has kind of a chunky butt, but I know what to do. I look her in the eyes and I give her a sincere compliment about how her hair frames her beautiful face so well. We hug and start chatting. My back is to the Australian girl. The new random girl turns to her girlfriend, and I put my arms around her from behind and rock gently. I feel her thighs with my hands, her silky dress feels so nice. She's into the attention. But I release her after a few seconds and go back to my new friend from Oz. She was watching all of that go down, for the previous 60 seconds. My girl explodes onto me. All lips and tongue and smiles and nuzzles. We sit down, her on my lap, and make out a little more and talk and snuggle because it's getting a little chilly up there on the roof. The girls buy a round of drinks for everyone. We gulp them down.

I say to Toli's ear discreetly, "we gotta get these girls out of here." He agrees. We talk a bit more, go downstairs to the couches next to the dance floor. Talk a bit more. It's loud. I sign language to the other three with my fingers walking, as in "let's walk the fuck OUT of here." We take the elevators downstairs & all jump in a cab. I'm riding bitch between the two girls in the back. My girl and I vibe some more and I feel her up a bit under her clothes.

We pull these girls to Toli's place in SoHo and pour drinks and talk. Toli takes his girl in another room. Me and my girl. Alone at last. We leave Toli's at about 3:30; I jump in a cab with the two girls and head out into the night.

I'll be seeing my girl again, because I was planning a trip to see Tom! Perseverance first week of July, and she happens to live in Houston. Texas: America's Outback. Perfect.

"...How soon not now becomes never."

Thanks for the push Jeffy. For some reason, every time you and I are in the same place, crazy epic shit happens. Remember that 2-set of 9's on the lower east side last summer? It happened AGAIN dude. WHy? Why??? Why man, why???? hahahah I am getting a mesh baseball hat with your picture airbrushed on it and I'm wearing it sideways when I pick up chicks. You know, like how old people take a Polaroid snapshot of the Pope on TV and carry it around with them in their wallet for that extra-special blessing when they need a little pick-me up. Expect Jeffywear in the near future. Fuck man, you didn't have to do that for me while you're working. But you did. Thanks dude.

I *am* a natural. I always knew that I was. There were just a few old habits and beliefs stifling it that I had to shed, like old clothes. And as luck would have it, as I walked to my car down 50th street on Sunday evening as I was about to leave the city... I look down at my feet on the sidewalk. Sitting there peering up at me is a shiny little lapel button about an inch in diameter. White lettering on a black background. It looked like it had been stepped on a couple times, people who had passed it by. People who never stopped to notice.

It said, "10".

Alex Breakdown of the Female brain

2008-05-08T21:15:00.000-07:00

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R795KiMD4zs

I had just finished a bootcamp in Winnipeg. Closed the deal and had a huge week lined up in LA. Flight was delayed so I perused the bookstore looking for something new and exciting.

There on the shelf, in its entire eye catching marketing glamour was the book that completely turned my program and my game on its head. The book that would confirm academically a lot of the theories and experiences that I already knew. It gave me the most important perspective than any guy who has the intentions of improving this part of his life need to be aware of.

Sceptically I inspected the book, guessed that it would be like so many other anecdotal, quick fix ‘how to flirt’ piece of shit books out there. Reading the info about the author i quickly discovered that her expertise was verified with decades of experience in the field of relationship psychology and neuropsychology.

Basically put, it described the mechanical workings of the brain. The Author, Louann Brizendine M.D. is a neuropsychiatrist at the university of California and the founder of women’s and girl’s mood and hormone clinic.

If anyone from the academic area is qualified to offer insight into the working of a female mind it is this woman.

The book is primarily designed to address the differences between male and female brains, as Brizendine argues all research on the brain has historically presumed that it is a male brain in question.

More than anything the book contrasts the differences between male and female brains, development, hormonal characteristics and the behaviour that one could expect in light of certain neurological activity.

At university this was the focus of my studies and I thoroughly benefited from and enjoyed this book.

Although a lot of amazing epiphanies are outlined in this book the ones most applicable to men’s self actualisation and understanding of social dynamics I will cover in detail.

Being a biologist Brizendine is an advocate of evolutionary theory and supports all of her facts empirically from this perspective. The basic idea is that emotionally, we are essentially monkeys with a cognitive computer strapped on top.

In addition to this it is presupposed knowledge that the more a person performs a certain activity the more brain cells are assigned to that task. This overtly supports the Real Social Dynamics directive to get into field.
On an emotional level, humans have the reproductive emotional brains of cats, dogs or chimpanzees, but, evolved a higher cognitive brain to consciously regulate these emotions, build pyramids, design computers and develop medicine.

Examples of this might be when you interact with a woman from another language. Given that you cannot logically communication via the traditional words the emotional channels are tapped into and attraction for both the man and woman is amplified, or rather unstifled, because there is less higher cognitive brain involved to interfere. Reproduction made simple. Just like mammals.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R795KiMD4zs

Furthermore, people drink to delete the cognitive brain that restrains them from being themselves, trusting themselves and acting through their own intentions.

Confidence happens when you perceive that nothing holds you back.

When do most people sleep together? When they are drinking or drunk. This is a result of a combination of social conditioning (advertising campaigns) and neurochemical reactions.

Neurologically, the alcohol has an inhibition effect on the cognitive brain, effectively unshackling the more primal emotional brain that was being held in check by the conditioned higher cognitive brain.

Is alcohol crucial to achieving sex? Of course not. But Brizendine confirms academically the knowledge that the community has so long been aware of and implemented. Brizendine clearly states that 'female sexual arousal begins when the brain turns off’.

Of course most men would read this and instantly think, get her drunk. That’s socially expected and conditioned from a young age. But another, more effective way of doing this is engaging the brain, whilst sober, illogically.

When I use the word illogically I mean saying things that don’t quite make sense, random non-sequesters, physical charisma and unpredictability. This can come in the form of something funny, which in actual fact is an element of surprise and an emotion spike. Witty comments that add an unforseen perspective on a situation, a sudden change of mood to anger or excitement.

An unknown adventure, thrills and uncertainty. All of which are emotional spikes, which guys like Tim, Tyler, Jeffy, and Ryan~ have been talking about for years.

Imagine that women's emotional brain and logical brain are like a counterbalanced scale. The more she is logical, the less she is emotional. The more she is emotional the less she is logical. Ask any executive coach about what happens to a girl when she becomes emotional, or in other words detached from logic.

Sex happens when the brain is turned off according to Brizendine. Engage her emotionally and disregard logic she will fall into your communication frame, get her state from you and become very sexually aroused.

Contrastingly, have you ever engaged women in a logical conversation? “Where are you from, what are you doing, where did you go to school, I have a friend who has a jealous ex girlfriend who keeps pictures of some other girl in his draw and it’s a two part question.” Pretty gay. Boring and incongruent with whom you are as a man. To the woman, as long as you are predictable and logical attraction will be about as accessible to you as Area 51.

The logical emotional balancing act as outline by Brizendine is in support of the Alpha Male – Beta Male theory. Emotionally and illogically she desires the alpha and the rush that comes from him. Logically and cognitively she thinks it best to be with a committed stable guy. She is right on both counts and is continually at the mercy of the push pull miscommunication between the logical and emotional brains.

As a side note, the formula that should be adapted for group theory should be ‘friendly and logical’ with the target’s friends while being 'flirty and illogical' with the target herself.

Essentially flirting is illogicality.

A lot of guys fail to remember the constant neurobiological civil war that is constantly being ranged inside of any woman. With the exception of some birth control pills and other treatments. On a monthly basis woman undergo a literal rollercoaster of hormonal changes.

To look at this graphically as depicted in the book is quite astounding. For two weeks of the month there is relative peace, then a short period of acute heightened sexual desire (bought on by the release of testosterone) then a string of days when a woman can become irritable emotional and easily upset.

Anecdotally some people think that the reason why number thirteen is unlucky because women have thirteen menstrual cycles during a calendar year. I have no idea about the accuracy of this information. Interesting though.

This chemical-behavioural fluctuation is further testament to the Real Social Dynamics ideology of living in a strong and self sustained reality. Women are drawn to men who serve as the grounding energy amongst the chaotic world. When her emotions are running wild, an unreactive, assertive and decisive man serves as the stability that is biologically challenging to maintain. This is another way of interpreting the notion of masculine polarity Tyler dissects in the Blueprint.

Be sure that due to women’s emotional fluctuation there will be fluctuation in her behaviour and psychology. In the eyes of a traditional community student this will come across as tests. Be unreactive to these tests and you will have just the sort of strength and self trust that she will naturally gravitate towards. Moral of the story is to be internally centred, unreactive and radiate a strong reality.

To further crystallise the notion of gender polarity you can think of men as independent entities and women as the forces connecting them, binding groups and circumventing social turbulence. Historically women relied on men for their physical wellbeing. Although modern society has super ceded this primal pattern there is no escaping the emotional and psychological urges to fulfil this innately wired societal role.

The basic emotional brain ceased significant evolution thousands of years ago as it was already totally equipped to pair bond, reproduce, naturally select worthy mates and protect children. These properties still exist today strong as ever but are somewhat stifled by cognition.

Have you ever had a women tell you that she’s complicated? This is the internal war between the modern brain and the primitive brain. The logic of stability versus the offspring of the dashing. Understand this objectively and fulfil both criterion.

On a deeper level how is it that women in pre-language primitive situations and still today intuitively understand others’ thought and emotions with the skill level that Brizendine quotes ‘rivals a psychic’? Anyone who has spent time in the field will know just how perceptive women are, they know all about you before you open your mouth.

The self is always coming through. This is the bottom line of natural game.
The psychological take on this never published prior to this book explains this phenomenon in a way that truly shook my perception of game and is on the same level of the Blueprint.

As a man you have a generally good perception of how people ‘really are’ regardless of their actions and behaviours. Women however have ten times this perception, and the level of intuition borders on freaky.

The perception itself evolved as a result of lacking physical ability. Instead of physical intervention or evasion perceptual interpretation and intuition would identify potential danger quickly and allow for the nullifying or evasive action.

Realise that whenever you are in the presence of women they will know instantly how you are feeling.

The most interesting part is how they do this. Of course there is no telepathy involved. What Brizedine reports is going on is a process called mirroring. Some may be familiar with this in the context of NLP, which is creepy.

However women naturally do this continually to make sense of the emotions the people they interact with are experiencing. Their rate and depth of breath mimic a man's, their posture mirrors the man's, the muscle tensions of the man is internalised by the woman, facial expression is matched and women begin to process emotions herself as it they were the man’s she is interacting with.

In community talk this process would occur most acutely when women are congruence testing men. This is testing for any sort of cognitive dissonance, apology, nervousness, self doubt or ego on his behalf. If the reading is positive for these negative emotions you can be sure that it is unlikely the women will endure an interaction where there is nothing but anxious feelings
to be experienced.

By that same principle if you approach a girl in a fun positive state she will instantly internalise it to perceive what sort of guys you are. If its high state or nimbus, fun, thrills, excitement or self trust she will internalise all the same things. Women are receptive by nature, drawing state from the world around whereas men draw it from within and siphon it onto others.

The real key to having a good night and getting girl boils down to the sole fact that whatever you are experiencing emotionally is exactly what she will experience.

Unless the case is that she has a stronger frame or reality than you.

Imagine you go in anxious about picking her up. She will internalise anxiety and you are done. Consider you think that she has more value than you, she will experience your feelings of neediness and be repelled. Contemplate approaching hopeful of getting a number, make out or any other form of close. She will instantly experience your feelings of hopefulness, or more accurately your lack of self trust. She doesn’t like the feeling of not trusting herself. You’re done.

Now, imagine you’re in state.

Nimbus ablaze...she will feel it a mile away and pug in as quickly as possible.

Imagine you decide to believe your game is a fucking ten, she will feel the allusive feeling of self trust that often escapes a women and be drawn quickly in.

Imagine you are the bringing the party, you are radiating fun. She will instantly get greedy and want some of that too.

But it’s ok because you can turn water into wine, you will never run out of goodness.

This is my ultimate rule of game...

whatever you are feeling is what she will feel.

This is the pillar of flawless natural game. Instant attraction. You cannot control what she is feeling, but you can control what you are and your experience.

Similarly, during a congruence test a woman is enjoying your company and enjoying the feelings you are giving her but will test the strength of your reality and frame. A man who’s feelings change as a result of a failed test (emotional reactivity) will influence the girl's emotions negatively and she will most likely be done with him.

It is empowering to know that if you express yourself to the right tune, feel good, genuinely trust yourself and live a perceptually fulfilled life women will never be far away.

The self is always coming through.

Be the music,

People will feel you loud and clear,

And be moved.

Alexander~

DrunkJohn Full throttle

2008-05-08T21:13:00.000-07:00

There is no greater thrill than succeeding at something you thought impossible. It's a rush. It's empowering.

Remember when you first drove by yourself? Remember when you got your first award?

Accomplish the almost impossible, and suddenly everything seems possible.

Pretty awesome, right?

And right after your victory, just as you're basking in the glory of winning, you have a choice:

1. Revel in that victory, no matter how large or small, and plateau...coasting on your success and seeing how far one thing can take you.

OR

2. Carpe vagina and attack the next challenge.

We all know guys who have done, and still do #1. They develop something, they get one success with one woman one night, and suddenly they're the next big expert. As if all their dues are paid in one woman. These are the same guys who talk about the past with great reverence, who enjoy starting conversations with, "Remember that time...."

These guys might be your friends. You might be related to one. You might even be one yourself.

And I have one challenging word for you: Coward.

Talk about the glory days? Live in the past? You're afraid. You're scared. So to protect yourself, to preserve that ego and put it high on a throne, you're not trying again.

You want to see how far you can ride that one wave.

That's cool if that's your plan. That's great if you just want to be an inventor and not an innovator, if you just want to have one flash in the pan rather than a lifetime of sustained success.

History remembers one-hit wonders too....just not as fondly as the career men.

Now you could do that, and live afraid and hold onto that ego and your accomplishments as if they elevate to some invisible status that only you're privy to.

Or you could sack the fuck up, punch your ego in the mouth and be like #2.
Don't rest on one night. Don't rest on a single accomplishment, no matter how big it is. Sure curing cancer would be a monumental big event, but what if you were the guy who cured cancer, AIDS and herpes?

Edison, Franklin and Jefferson didn't just invent one thing.

Alexander and Caesar didn't just fight one campaign.

In the second World War, we didn't mop the floor with only the Nazis. (And to you foreign people, Charlemagne didn't just take over a single country)

Oh no, they didn't. They had one success, and tried again. Sure, they knew they might fail. Sure they knew they could have sat back and admired one victory for a little while longer.

But why settle for just one? You're not defined by just one activity, one goal or one task, right?

You succeed once, you go take that momentum and go again. Go bigger. Go harder. Go stronger. Go more. Do more. Be more. Be more again.

And that, gentlemen, is the idea of full throttle, no brakes.

It's how you face life. It's how you handle challenges. It's what you say when people ask you how you roll. Say it with me now:

"Full throttle, no brakes"

You succeed and then you succeed again. You don't pussy out, you don't do anything weakly or half-assed.

Don't live afraid of your shadow. Don't live content with one success. What the fuck are you scared of? You want to be a big man, and get some praise, that's awesome. Rock on brother. But what's next?

Be a man, and live your life now. In the moment. Yes, the past was good. Yes you get a cookie. But the past is done. You're still a man. You're still living. Still plenty of things you can do.

Do it. Stop being a coward. If I was being a coward, I trust that you'd be the one to tell me to sack the fuck up, right?

So what do you do?

When you speak your mind, you speak it fully. Vocal projection, confidence and most importantly INFORMED. Don't dance around a subject. If you don't know something, say so, and then if necessary educate yourself. Don't spew bullshit just "to be the man". Men don't bullshit or gossip. Seriously.

When your ego bubbles up and you start feeling all potent and top-of-the-world, don't sit there and coddle it. Smack it the fuck down. Perspective, get some and enforce it. Don't kinda sort do anything.

Full throttle, no brakes.

When you go out, you're out. Forget "alpha" forget all those terms. Be you. BE YOU. Be not only a man, BE THE MAN. Confident, potent, strong, attractive, centered. Be the way you were always meant to be.

Full throttle, no brakes.

Your game is a 10.
You don't give a fuck what other people think about you.
Unstifle.

How do you do these things?

Full throttle, no brakes.

Follow up on Myspace

2008-05-08T21:11:00.000-07:00

Like i said before shes sexy. So as usual she throws shit test, gives attitudes and expects shit to be done her way . But I dont fall into her frame , in fact i've been telling her the attitude is a big turn on for me and she laughs and keeps giving it .... shes knows whatsup .

Trys to catch an attitude with me because i didnt call her back, she trys to text me and reply hours later. Basically try and control the frame i just dont comply .

Now im out of the field and im setting up the close before i go to Miami in case she cant get into Florida. Text game follows (Oh yeah HB Myspace is now HB Blue eyes )

HB Blue Eyes: Hey Bae what are you doing
Sin: Thinking abut my Texas Shorty you ?
BE: o0h good one lol what you doing for real ?
Sin: Imaginging your smell, your taste , your touch ......UMMMMM
BE: lol your a pervert
Sin: nah im leaving the field .... come help me pack up and move
BE: lol on my way

few hours later
BE: You still in the field bae ?
Sin: Nah im in the barracks .... come clean my weapon for me
Be: How about we clean your weapon lol
Sin: Nah ILL handle it I dont know how you deal With BIG weapons .... probably cant handle it
BE: hmm lol yea ok we'll see

the whole time im projecting a sexual state to setup the close , and get her out of this shit test mode even though she closed me and the idea of attraction is out the window. She knows im high value and shes past attracted to me .... But shes testing me because she just broke up with her man and she is already growing attached to me . So shes trying to make sure that im not a chode or something haha

Sin: Word of advice if you put me on your tops (myspace) you have to make it count or i wont take it serious .... check my tops
BE:But I dont know these people
Sin:You dont have to just know that there family and close friends.... so your amongst the elite be happy
(feels special puts me up like 15 spots or whatever)
BE: ( replies to a comment i left her on myspace) So you would rather wake up to me ?
Sin: definetly so i can see, taste , and smell you myself ... instead of imagining it .... feel me ?
Be: LOl ok ok i feel you, hmm sounds good

She calls me i miss it , i call her she misses it ( I hate phone tag) then i text ...

Sin: Come wash my back
Be: Ok daddy im on the way
Sin: Oh yea dont forget the massage oil ...
BE: ..... and i have the whipped cream
SIn: ice cream ...
Be: and chocolate syrup
Sin: hmm turning me into a dessert now babe ?
BE: You have the banana .... we could make a banana split ...
( done)
Sin: so i guess for these last gruesome 2 months in Texas your going to make it all better 2morrow ...
BE: Just wait and see ....

Phone/ Txt Game

2008-05-08T21:09:00.001-07:00

The infamous phone and text game . Where perfect begin game ends sets . What's the main reason ? Because guys can't follow up with the same energy thay started with .

If your in the Venue and your energy level and "cool-o-meter" is at its peak, this attracts females tremendously . Or being in state in the venue or where ever your picking up the female .

You create the attraction build the rapport and set up a meet soon or whatever it is you go for .

Now a few days go by and you call her, and it seems as if the energy level is "stale". You don't feel the same vibe from her as before and she feels the same ...... your value and her attraction towards you STOP.

If you have the best open game in the world and can't follow up unless its a same night lay .... there's a good chance that you may have a late flaker . She doesn't feel your the same person or you don't bring as much to the table as before .

Phone game must still portray that GUY you made that person believe you werewhen you met them . ****duh its the reason she gave you the number in the 1st place .

*** if you call and the whole conversation is ^fluff, then make it the fluff she's ever heard in her life .... otherwise she'll get bored thus leading to
> I'll call you back later
> um nah I'm sorry my schedule is filled
> yeah just call me ...

Or whatever , avoid your perfectly well gamed targets flaking you but having good follow up game. Always steer the conversation in a way you want it to go . Day 2s or whatever .... don't let the energy die down and constantly keep the phone game going until you get off . And don't end the convo on a lo note .

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Txt game , the easiest way to communicate and close . I have had sets where I haven't spoke on the phone with and still had day 2s and closed .

1st off txt game is the perfect way to finish an interaction . Because if she txt's you , you can take hours to reply and think of what you want to say before you send it . Also a quick note

****** EVERYTIME A FEMALE TXT'S YOU, YOU DON'T HAVE TO REPLY********

Just thought I'd throw that out there ...

I read threads where guys asks .... what should I say to this ?

What's the best reply for a girl who says this to you ?

The best reply is the one that you think nof and that fits the type of person you are . To start txt msgs I suggest that your lines be creative and interesting to draw her attention to it .

Imagine a hot girl probably has about 20 dudes texting her per day . Why should she reply to your text rather than the other 19 ? And if she does reply and doesn't feel that the convo will go anywhere she'll stopp replyin .

So I'd suggest you guys read up on the Manwhore Txt message thread , there's some real gold in there ....

Also my fav lines are
" Ahhh my knight in a heels and skirt, come save me from the fiery pits of boredom"

"I'm going to kick myself for saying this but ... what are you doing ?"

"GOD DAMMIT !!!! YOU FREAKIN JERK GET ME OUT YOUR HEAD ALREADY , I HAVE SHIT 2 DO 8-) "

JUST SOME SUGGESTIONZ

Phil'z signing out

My method to project a Sexual state

2008-05-08T21:08:00.000-07:00

SSP one of the shining stars of being a PUA or "Gamer". If done well becomming a closer shouldn't be a problem, if done wrong you could come off as creepy as usual ....

Warning just like everything else this is a method that takes time to master , as a result just by practicing it @ first you may lose targets . Untill it becommes congruent with who you are, you may appear as the creepy guy that likes to talk about sex . But once it is congruent with your natural self it will be as easy as using your faviorate opener .

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Yet again I was reading RSD Wiki and I was reading an article about SSP (can't give credit to the staff member because I can't really remember ! Sorry guys don't delete me ha) but yet again I believe it was either Alex or Nathan because for some reason I think they have a similar style .

The Post was about the persons method to projecting a sexual state in which he throws out a comment to see if the female will "hook" . If she does he then stacks the conversation into a sexually driven interaction including stories of himself or friends of his and draw the female into this . He will then ask her opinon on the topic and ask " is thatt something that you'd like?" or " that sounds like some shit you would do ?"

which will in turn make her more comfortable about the subject around you . Also while doing this method you maken it known that sex isn't a big deal to you . Shit animals fuck all day and we don't judge them for it , why should you judge a female if she knows what she wants and she goes to get it . Also it is IMPORTANT that while projecting a Sexual State you make sure that she realizes that you do not judge females for having sex early , and that you applaude a female for knowing what she wants . So when it comes time to have sex she doesn't have thoughts of you thinking negative about her afterwards . Most females don't want to see there image shattered or will hate to be judged and by you making her aware of this ..... this problem won't happen !!!!

* in turn the female will accept that being sexual is just congruent with your character
* she won't be hesitant to bring up the matter around you or talk about it
* can lead to an earlier sexual relationship because if she's knows its congruent with your character , you won't judge her for having a sexual relation so early in getting to know you .

This is why a lot of Pua's sets go stale so early on , there cool and gaming wise its on point .... but if you just continue to be that cool guy you will just become a cool friend . Then they try and bring up sex later on down the line and by this time it won't appear to her as part of who you are . A lot of guys grow strong relationships and do everything right but they just can't finish and like I said SSP will help you become a closer .

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Now this is how I started to project A sexual state. But recently I've been using a new way that has been getting my targets to know early on that I'm just SEXUAL period .it is based off of the method described above .

* being sexual is a strong tool that a male has over females . We know it , we feel it but yet when it comes to females we don't express it .... why ? Because society tells us its wrong to do so . So we try not to talk about sex until we feel that we have that deep level of comfort and that we have a bond with the female . And there's nothing wrong with this , BUT the whole point of PU is to get us out of our comfort zone . Most people feel comfortable about waiting til they have that deep level of comfort . Now if you force youself out of your comfort zone and start the sexual drive earlier on your producing that sexual state .

When I open a target and start gaming her I watch EVERYTHING . I watch her body language and eyes mainly because the unspoken words are the ones with the most meaning . Also pay attention to not the words itself but the underlying meaning to the words or the Sub Communication . I use everything she does AGAINST her .

*if she has strong EC I'll ask is she trying to seduce me ? And imply that strong EC is the best way to lure someone into your trap . Basically I'm maken it seem as if she's hitting on me . ( when a females hitting on you it could be sub conscious like an IOI) same thing for body language .

More than likely she'll laugh and pay more attention to her body language.

I'll usually suggest or hint that everything she does is hitting on me and that I PERMIT this type of behavior

Sin: you have this little twinkle in your eye when you look @ me .... something like what my ex used to do when she wanted me to kiss her ....
Don't stop though I luv it

Your used to this and your maken it known 2 her.

Also while building rapport I'll throw out a sexual comment BUT I'll ask her opinion on the matter so she has to respond. Ask her questions but always put out your view on the matter before you allow her to answer so she won't feel that your trying to judge her in any way at all .

I usually tell chicks about how this girl told me oral and swallowing is nasty but I love a female more for doing it because she's doing what she wants to do as an adult and not caring what I or others may say about it . Now that she knows you have a positive view on the matter she will giver her honest opinion without feeling she's being judged . I will then stack forward and keep the sex convo going NOT revealing to much , but just enough to kinda pump her BT . At this point this is when you monitor her her responses and tell if she's comfortable with this or not . But by leading her down this path you have already established the rapport that most chodes are scared to touch on .

I'm.about to go into class so any clarification on this please don't hesitate to ask and I'll try my best to explain to the best of my ability

FR Bubble of love

2008-05-08T21:07:00.002-07:00

Now 1 of my strong points is that I can open most of my sets and almost instantly get Hooks .

Now since it has been called the "bubble of love" I have yet to get the chance to enter this space in a set to call my own . But during my leave in Febuary I have a FR in which I have this bubble , and its so strong that the lady forgets she's with friends and an hour later takes me to introduce me to them ....

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Girl fucking sexy as worker in the guess store . We make EC I'm in uniform , I've been getting EC all day . I feel like eye candy for these Texas Natives .... and this is a small town I can't wait to hit bigger parts of Texas .

Being here in a state so far out of my usual area has shown me that every place isn't the same . I need to travel , I need to get out and do shit besides being stuck and limited to NYC itself . Thus is the reason for my trip To Miami for 5 days and not back to NYC .

Back to the FR

I enter the guess store , she stares me down and I feel like a piece of meat ... wait I am . She walks up with heavy eye contact ( bold and confident in herself huge turn on)

HB Guess: Do you need any help ?
Sin: I've been the same size since Hs hopefully not
Hb: lol ok well , I'll be over here if you need me ...

She lingers around near by I call her back over ...

Sin: hm Mz Guess I need an outfit , what over here do you see me in ?
Hb: let me see ...
Sin: just pick out clothes you want me to wear on our 1st date
Hb: lol ok what's your size ?
Sin: blah blah blah

She starts off grabbing some clothes off the rack and I start the seed ...

Sin: hmm now that I'm paying attention , you are probably the best looking female I've seen in El Paso since I've been here ....
Hb: wow thanks lol I appreciate it
Sin: nah I don't like those jeans, I would think you would want me 2 look sexy for our 1st date .
Hb: lol

I included a SOI, but if you give a SOI and stay on that statement for to long the female will look at you as creepy , regardless of the replyyou switch subjects and don't let the response even matter or register .

Once you give a SOI the female will watch your behavior patterns if your keep hammering her with SOI after SOi it will creep her out . If you give her one SOI and you look as if your waiting for a postive reaction then your to reactive you lose the set . This is why a lot of guys get blown out with the opener

"Your so cute I had to meet you"

So at this point she doesn't break EC with me @ all , she's thouroughly engaged and this interaction is completly natural I can't remember shit said . But then some guy from my unit comes up and trys to Cockblock

Cb: yo D , how do you think this shirt will look on me ?
Sin: idk, try it and see
Cb: excuse me miss can you take me to the dressing room ?
Hb: um sure
Cb: can you help me put on the shirt to ?
Hb: (gives him the omg did you just say that face and escorts him to the back)

She comes back and brings me to the dressing room as well .

After trying on the few outfit she brings me some more to try on ....

Then she gets mad because I don't show her the clothes as I'm trying them on , so I kinda model for her she loves the outfits .... then CB comes back

Cb: ayo D tell me your not wearing that shirt ...
Hb: I like that shirt it fits him
Cb: dude that shirt will make you look so gay.... ( at this time he tries to amog me)
Sin: its cool I can look gay and still get more girls than you , so it doesn't really matter does it .

She laughs he leaves ....

I pick up my outfit she carries it to the register and talks to me while the girl rings me up ( also this isn't a commision based job , so she wasn't getting paid for te extra service its just because its me also this whole ordeal lats about an hour and a half )

When I'm on the way out I call her towards me ...
Sin: so0o now I have the outfit , so when shall we go shoe shopping ?
Hb: idk next weekend is good
Sin: sounds good you have a great taste in clothes your my new fashion coordinator
Hb: oh really lol hear take down my number

I have yet to call her but I will .....

Phil'z signing out

Myspae game

2008-05-08T21:07:00.001-07:00

This post is about some online game i've been doing while out here

This is a 9 who 1st hit me with the BF line but after she went thru my page and seen alittle about me she changed her mind and now looks at me as becomming my gf ... hmmm

Also right now im just testing things to see where they will leave me with these sets .... but shes a hot 1 and shes willing to buy a ticket and come 2 Miami to visit me for a day awww how sweet

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From: Miami May 9th thru the 13th ... Big Thingz ,
Date: Apr 21, 2008 10:32 AM

your sexy

Umm ok that'll be all 8)

New to the area just lookin thru the ppl yall have out here , sheesh u guys have some ugly Texans 8X i guess your 1 of the lucky 1s congrats

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From: ♥MS. TONY♥
Date: Apr 21, 2008 3:50 PM

so u trynna say we ugly?? damn thas harsh than a muh fucca

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From: Miami May 9th thru the 13th ... Big Thingz ,
Date: Apr 21, 2008 4:18 PM

not all of yall , your a lucky 1 .... and i seen some few others

but your definetly hot .... so congratulations

im here doing this training , planning alot of shit ... and in my spare time i search thru myspace n all u know

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From: ♥MS. TONY♥
Date: Apr 21, 2008 4:19 PM

LMAO... WELL THANKS, THOUGHT U WAS TALKIN SHIT FA A MIN... WELL U WAS, JUSN NOT BOUT ME. SO WHY U IN TEXAS??

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The rest is fluff but the most important part follows

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From: Miami May 9th thru the 13th ... Big Thingz ,
Date: Apr 23, 2008 5:07 PM

yea its like that !!! i get str8 to the point henny with no chaser !!! no bullshit i roll like a champ so why not continue my reign in your city haha and you can be my pretend gf so we can make all these texas girls jealous haha

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From: ♥THE ECCENTRIC MS. TONY♥
Date: Apr 23, 2008 5:26 PM

im sure that u wont have any trouble findin a cute girl... trust me there mad cute girls down here. i hope u find a girl u can make people jealous wit but i love my boyfriend an i know he wouldnt appreciate me chillin wit any dudes... sorry an good luck

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From: Miami May 9th thru the 13th ... Big Thingz ,
Date: Apr 23, 2008 5:40 PM

lol damn Mz Tony i said pretend gf !!!! i've been places in texas i know aggressive some chicks r so you could help me difer them !! haha anyways sure if you have extremly cute friends in texas that you feel i should talk 2 sure let her know about me ill do the rest haha

( I get back into this set after the LJBF by telling her that i wasnt really into her and wouldnt mind hooking up with a friend of hers )

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From: ♥THE ECCENTRIC MS. TONY♥
Date: Apr 23, 2008 5:44 PM

lol aiight i can do that...

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From: Miami May 9th thru the 13th ... Big Thingz ,
Date: Apr 24, 2008 5:10 AM

aight so ill be expecting a hot texan chick ... cool ? haha im gunna call you Mz Cupid now but remember my training is almost done so we have 2 umm do it a lil faster than usual

From: ♥ECCENTRIC♥
Date: Apr 24, 2008 3:26 PM

well i wanna see your pics so i can see whats gudie fa my girls... i cant really see tha face n u gotta be more specific bout what type of females u like .. tall, short, thin, thick, skinny, fat, cute face ok body or nice body fucked up face... u know shit like that but jus bye convosatin wit u a lil i take it u consider yaself the shit n im sure u like the whole package but unfortunately there is no whole package... a fine woman will always have issues mentally and an good woman is usually ugly.. lol ya digg

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From: Miami May 9th thru the 13th ... Big Thingz ,
Date: Apr 25, 2008 5:03 PM

u look adorable in that pic!!!!

so ummm how long untill u find this women of my dreams lol

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From: AlWaYs 1St BaY-B U dIdNt KnOw??
Date: Apr 25, 2008 6:27 PM

well i told u i wanna see ur profile so soon as i see it i'll start the search!!! oh n thank u

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From: Miami May 9th thru the 13th ... Big Thingz ,
Date: Apr 25, 2008 6:31 PM

lol i requested u mad long ago !!!! grr i requsted u again so have fun rampaging thru my pg and dont 4get my about me section ... it explains alot 8)

(after this she goes thru my profile and the rest follows

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From: AlWaYs 1St BaY-B U dIdNt KnOw??
Date: Apr 25, 2008 6:50 PM

lol i love the swagg n yes u sound unique! it's obvious u cocky n very confident. damn so why u need my help in findin a shorty fa u?? u sound more than capable of findin a lil mami...so what is u gettin into this weekend? n why the hell u so damn cut?? it aint right!!lol

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From: Miami May 9th thru the 13th ... Big Thingz ,
Date: Apr 25, 2008 8:47 PM

8) 8) 8) 8) <<< those are my smileys by the way !!!!

yea definetly thanks for the acknowledgment i dnt consider myself cocky its just im extremly confident but some females take confidence as being cocky, but lucky for you , you said i was both so i cant be mad at cha ... and bcuz by the time i find a real good shorty here ill be a day away from leaving !! so hopefully you can speed up the process .... plus by you hooking me up with some1 hopefully shes as sexy and cool as you 8)

this weekend lucky for me they gave us 2morrow off so im trying to go out right now actually, but im trying to sit in and chill me and my boys were thinking of a hotel party or suttin

o yea and bcuz hard work 8)

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From: AlWaYs 1St BaY-B U dIdNt KnOw??
Date: Apr 25, 2008 9:21 PM

wow well im officially single lol...aint that some shit?? yuh

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From: Miami May 9th thru the 13th ... Big Thingz ,
Date: Apr 26, 2008 7:42 AM

ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh im going out 2nite im gunna test the waters of El Paso , so where shall we go ? give me a few ideas 2 play with for the day

( she responds with her number and when i call her she wants to meet up the same day but its the same day i have plans with HB AF so i decline and wait for another chance

BTW

Shes fucking sexy just so u guys know .... haha

LR AF Model

2008-05-08T21:06:00.000-07:00

This one is short ....

I meet a female ( whoop whoop to myspace game ) shes sexy as hell 4'11 nice body im loving it . Shes a model so in order to demonstrate higher value than her I brung out my NYC DHV about me being a head promoter and CEO of my own productions team , this hooks well and from here without me trying to game her she starts showing massive attention towards me .

Sending me alot of Pictures
Txt'ing me and I know that shes already attracted and she sees me as a guy with higher value than her. So for the rest the convo's she sub communicates this by trying to get me to accept her as high value as well .

She does this by getting on WebCam for me ...

Her small sexy frame on WebCam just made my adrenaline pump and make me feel more in state than ever .... because all of this happens in ONEE DAYY !!!!!!

I have her on the webcam masterbating as i type the freakiest shit to her and she loves it . (perfect)

Saturday we get the day off and i meet her at the mall . Str8 off the bat she has her Bitch mode on high , everything i said or mentioned she tried to find a way to eat it up and throw it back at me . I fixed this by clawing her into me and telling her to shutup and shop ... she complies

The cab comes i take in to the hotel

******** This is a method I seen on RSD Wiki after I did this, by either Alex or Nathan ...

Grabbed her hand led her thru the mall , to the cab in , in the cab , to th reception desk at the hotel , to the hotel room , to the bed.... WITH NO QUESTIONS ASKED and nothing mentioning what we were going to do . We get there she puts up minor ASD buy i just lay her down and tell her to relax ...

Her frame is small and tight it turns me on more ....

So i fuck the shit out of her til i reach Sexual exhaustion and pass out

Welcome to the good life !

Lr Salvadorian

2008-05-08T21:05:00.000-07:00

Ok onto this LR
Im currently in Texas in Mob Station , i see a chick on post that i had the craziessssssttttt crush on in AIT ( Military school for job training and lets call this girl HB AIT ). Good thing is she was the sexiest chick in Virginia and she was in my company . I started off with my chode game , writing letters back and fourth ( even though we both had cell phones smh). Eventually one weekend we were set to meet up after i started telling her how sexy she was and how she didnt know what i would do to her ....

Im thinking its on ..... ITz NOT

She flaked , big time .

and for every weekend until her last weekend she flaked me . Set up plans and last minute flaked .

So the last weekend i spit some extra game I wanted 2 make sure i fucked the hell out of her before she leaves for Texas . So the last weekend we actually meet up . Im laying on the bed with her , and her friends in the other bed and I kinda kiss her cheek , NO REACTION . Im getting nervous as hell scared to make a move because I was out gaming myself . My mind telling my body im not good enough to make this happen .... SO i chode out lol , she left and we never spoke since ....

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Now fast forward back to NOW. I see her and she recognizes me and we start talking and it turns out shes on the same base as me . So I can see that shes interested because alot of things have changed about me since .

But a guy shes with also notices her getting attached and breaks up the session we have . She number closes me and then leaves, i then find out that the man was her new husband . Ouch and that there deploying together . Thru myspace we speak and shes definetly trying to meet up but at the moment i feel like i shouldnt because i dont want to be the reason a home is torn apart, but if shes offering it im going to take it ....

Eventually she stops sending me msgs and i found out its because her man is in her msgs (bummer). But then i see her walking around with a sexy spanish female . We start talking and quicky she starts to pay me alot of attention ( Hb salvador and Hb AIT are best friends ) hmm so Salvador is showing me alot of attention and AIT is catching on and trying to stop whats going on . I make plans to meet with her but there foiled because of the time factor we have here .

So HB Ait leaves my camp to prepare for deployment .... but her friend is still on the main base because she has a temptorary medical profile that doesnt allow her to deploy .

So she tells me come to her room on a day when i had no training , I come and she has some Red Wine set up already . I sit on the bed and 10 mins later were both naked
Me exploring her walls
Her enjoying the trip ....

Oh yea and she sends me a message and tells me i should'nt tell anyone .... but yet I have know one to tell !!!

revenge is the shizzzzz nitttt

My Current status

2008-05-08T21:04:00.000-07:00

The time has finally com !!!! Now for everyone reading who has ever , went out with me , spoke to me , traded messages with me or even read over any post of mine . Your comments are not only appreciated but there NEEDED . I love critique and any type of information for me or criticism is welcome .

Now these last few weeks have been GLORIOUSS and no im not just saying it because Tim mentioned it . I honestly feel that I am living a glorious life .

Recently I have no words to name what it is i've been going thru.

Its a mixture between State and Being . IDk what it is , im not completely in the NOW because i still have random thoughts that pop up out of no where. I dont want to call it state because i dont feel completly invincible . I just feel like it is a mixture of both , I not only see the social matrix but i Understand it as well . I can sit in a corner and pick out the "Amos's" and "Beta's". I see the guys and girls who take value from people to make themselves feel better and others feel less of worthy . I see the people who seek validation and try and find there own value . I notice the way these Matrix works and not only do I like it I fucking love this shit .

Im not a value taker nor a man who seeks validation . I dont care what others think of me and what im doing or how im looking , all though at times i may catch myself self consciously giving myself a second look over in the mirror and thinking " I wonder if someone would like this " , but as quickly as the thought occurs i get rid of it .

Now to explain this mental state i feel myself in
-I can talk to anyone about anything, and if they like it or not IDC
-Petty occurances or problems do not hurt me
-Thru the last few weeks I have yet yo have a down day , or a day when im in a mental or emotional slump .
-I dont identify with negative emotions .
-I draw people towards me with my positive energy and state
-I dont only get eye contact , I get lists of IOI's usually when i catch EC with a female
-I feel dominant and relaxed at the same time , as if when the time arrives I can handle any set how im supposed to .

I've spoke to a few people and they have all said that "This is Being", and if this is Being then Being is fucking awesome , and mix this with the effects of state and you have yourself a valuable tool .

Theres alot more to this thread but i'll add on later i just have to get some of these post out b4 i forget them .

Fuckkkkkkking A

LR Logistical Mayhem

2008-04-10T21:53:00.001-07:00

First off i would like to tell all , logistics is not a Problem as many may think its just another OBSTACLE they if you overcome will make that issue that much more glorious .

ex. You tongue down a hot chick in a club that just took you an hour to get into because its a private party . Wont your night feel that much more special if you decide to overcome the fact that your not invited to the fuckin party anyway. Thus you add in swapping spit with an absolute random hot chick makes it that much better.

So for all you people that rationalize with yourself and decide you cant do Anything because of a logistical issue need to smack the shit out of yourself once these thoughts occur.

so im stuck in Hell Paso. Yes El Paso on the border of New Mexico and Texas and it is literatlly NOTHING OUT HERE . To make shit worst im deeper in El Paso at a place called Camp Mcgregor .... Hmm

Camp Mcgregor is about 3/4s of a mile wide not including the ranges surrounding the base. The surrounding area to the base you ask ??? Sand , sand , and more sand . Yes people I am months away from Iraq and they send me to a Mob that resembles such . The nearest facility to the base is a County Jail . Its a 40 minute drive to the nearest "civilian occupied area". Other than that were so far out that cell phone service is basically rare unless you find a hot spot somewhere . Also I have the 1st sgt and company commander that sleeps at the end of the hall in my barracks . And we have 6 man rooms so basically i just consider alll this is a real bad obstacle that is difficult but not impossible .

So now lets start with the LR/FR

About once a week we are allowed the time to take the bus about 40 minutes to the nearest base for a few hours each time . There is no peacocking im in fuckin uniform like every other person that walks in and out of this shopping area daily . Whats the easiest way to stand out in a crowd where everyone ears the same attire ???? Body language !!! I walk thru the PX like a fucking SGM or Hi ranking officer as if i can are less who the fuck everyone else is .... notice and pay attention to me . As i patrol this land of oppurtunity i felt i would have to LOWER my standards to get a fucking lay . Luckily as i walk into the PX i see this 8 (thank god !!!!) walk past and catch my eye . Hmm i walk over to her section and catch her glancing over at me so I approach

Sin: Whoa if I knew Texas had females as sexy as you .... I would've visited a long time ago ...
Hb: Oh really lol thankz
Sin: H,, Im new here and im ready to shoot a hole in my radio with this trash on the radio ... help me choose a CD ..

I drag her over to the cd section ( mind you shes on the clock working ). We talk alittle about music , i joke about how horrible these artist sound on the radio . Then we get into the topic of clubbin and she tells me she wants to take me with her one day . I get her number and just as im going to leave

Hb: I dont even know why i gave you my number , you probably wont even call me ...

Hmm self esteem issues ??? A female in NY would never say that because shes used to guys hitting on her all the time . But maybe the guys here are to chode to even approach her

Sin: Dont worry I usually pay attention to what catched MY attention .... I'll txt you later.

I walk around more flirt with a few workers . I then catch another 8 watching me from afar . I approach her

Hb: do you want to sample this new lotion by blah blah blah
Sin: Umm only if it comes with your number and you taken me on a date
hb: lol im sorry , blah bla blah
Sin: your cute whats your name ?

Break down her frame suck her into mine . Glorious
everything is going well until she tells me that shes engaged and her husbands in Iraq. I dont do married chicks , so we spoke a little more and i left , all these females in this world i will not lower myself to fuck the wife of a deployed soldier (unless she throws it at me ).

next female is a cute Air Force chick in the Chow Hall . 100 guys staring yet no one man enough to approach ( AA??? haha) . Shes talking to a male friend of hers and i pull up a seat .

Sin: ummm
hb: yes
Sin: your adorable , plus that accent is so country your from Tennessee right
hb: yea blah blah blah
Sin: I can tell that accent is a big turn on , and you look athletic how come i dont see you at the gym ?

Her friend is locked out of convo so I bring him back into the convo to kinda of ease the tension in both of them . He's cool she seems interested , I grab her number and promise to speak to her that night . As im leaving alot of people who were scared to approach her now seen her as something that maybe they can fuck . Me and her had a beautiful convo with a promise to hook up soon and chill , Next day i hit her up no response ?

Then someone that was there comes to me and mentions her so im guessing someone went to her and kinda shitted on me. Probably said how im a player or something . So now she ignores me .... but it doesnt matter bcuz two of her friends from the AF are feeling me .

Another female in a store by my barracks , cute but her bodys not as good as i like ( no ass ) . Get her number in 5 mins

Sin : How adventorus are you ?
hb: very ... why ?
Sin: So how about 1 day .... you get a car and come kidnapp me , maybe turn me into a sex slave of yours and bring me back b4 they notice i was missing
hb: owwwww your bad lol

at this time her cheeks are almost completly red ... i tell her ill call her later and leave . There were alot of people also there that noticed this and now theres a rumor going arounf that i fucked her . Yet I havent even called her yet .

There a few more but its time to get into the LR

My homeboy has this chick he knows in Texas . He tells her im down here and i get her number and start talking to her . Project Sexual state early and this chick is litteratly smothering me to see her the same night . I give her the address and it ends up leading her to another base where the mail goes (fuck) . So after an hour of being loss i tell her ill look it up on the map and get back to her with the directions .

We find out that its an hour away from her ( whoa ) but of course im Sincere so a few words of encouragment and she tells me she'll come . My next day free she comes at 6 and has to wait about 2 hours til 8 oclock to see me .

We drive around for a few looking for a spot to park and cant find any , So we park in front of a MP station ( Military Police Station) . She has no tint's O well .

5 mins into parking im kissing her neck paranoid ass hell from the patrolling MP roving guard and the convoy that the other unit has patrolling the base .

15 mins later shes naked as fuck and im giving her some of the best back seat sex of her life in the backseat of her mothers 2008 Ford Fusion ( sorry moms )

Time of glory

on the way out of the car with the windows fogged two guys from my unit see me ( o well)

Alpha of all Alpha's

2008-03-28T14:22:00.000-07:00

Alpha of all Alpha's

In this post im gunna explain the 2 different types of Alpha Males
In the PU world we have come to the conclusion that there is an Alpha and a Beta
Alpha being the more socially conditioned person , alot of confidence .... basically the traits of a natural
Beta is a person that is below an alpha who is not as socally conditioned , doesnt always display confidence ... basically a person levels below an alpha .

Now alot of People go thru the phase of trying to align there self with other alpha's . This is good BUT what alot of males dont realize is that there are 2 TYPES OF ALPHA's

In a social group you have a Pure Alpha , and a Beta Alpha . Basically the Alpha is the dude that basically is the leader of your group, you tend to try and show approval to this guy even though you may not realize it . Pay attention to how you may react to this guy, how you may be seeking his approval and how other react to his alpha status over yours .

The Beta Alpha is an alpha but when faced or around a pure alpha his status suddenly plunges and decreases and he doesnt feel as Alpha . As tyler says he has Value in certain enviorments .

A Pure tends not to react to anyone or anythng he does things at his own pace and doesnt feel threatned in the presence of others , basically this is the alpha we all know already and we are all trying to become . He has an overpowering frame that tends to attract everyones attention and there is nothing going on in the area that probably doesnt include him in some way shape or form . Ladies love him because he displays all the characteristics of the man we are all trying to become .

A Beta Alpha tends to also be an Alpha but his status is not as strong as the Pure's . His frame may be imposing but not as strong or dominant . He may only feel alpha in certain situations and enviorments other times he may have BETA traits . When in state this Alpha can overtake a room like a Pure long as he feels he is the strongest Alpha around and that there is no one there to compete with him for that status .

ex: You walk into a club where your social status is proven and you are known . But on this particular night Jay-Z is in town and in your normal venue . Jay being a Pure Alpha sucks up all the attention and makes your alpha status shrivel and die . Because he is socially proven and well known , and you may also be alpha but his status is more proven . Thus maken him the Pura and you the Beta.

Another Ex... have you ever beein in state and overran a venue ? to the point that you dont get Amog's but you have other Alpha's comming to you seeking your approval ? they see you as the Pure alpha and they are sumcommunicating that they acknowledge this by noticing and seeking your approval .

Now the point that many of us is at .... Is the fact that there may be a group of us in a social circle that hangs with other Beta Alpha's ... If the other BA feels he has more status thatn you or that he is more alpha this Alpha may constantly try
1)steal your value
2) make you qualify yourself to him
3) or throw shit test at you

They may try and steal your value by maken you feel below them by maken certain gestures or remarks ...

make you qualify to them by maken you show them that you are worthy of there approval and attention ( think .... why do we qualify females ? so that way we can see if she lives up to our standards .)

Throw shit test at you to see how you may react to them and respond . In an interaction there is ALWAYS someone who responds more in the conversation than the other , so if your responding to him you are showing that he is above you .

And you deal with these as if they were comming from a girl you were gaming ... keep your cool and reframe from it

I know this bcuz the last 2 weeks i have had another Alpha roomate who is kinda surprised with my Alpha status , he respects my status but at the same time he is always trying to prove that he is more alpha than me . So on a daily basis he trys these on me and it doesnt work , so 2day he gets frustrated enough to get mad and pick a fight .

I Laughed and told him hes frustrated bcuz were in the middle of no where and i've been able to get laid while he spends everynight arguing with his girl back home .... this cleared the tension of fighting and brung the convo into another area ....

Be more cautious and study your surroundings and ppl more and this will show more

Adioz

food Buddha SSP Post

2008-03-28T14:17:00.001-07:00

Quote:

Originally Posted by haiqu

Peacocking and being the life of the party is for KIDS. It's for people who have yet to really achieve any value in their lives. And I thought Dave D was pretty cool too, until I realized just how GAY his material was.

Yeah, I know this is going to be controversial, but I've said it.

James Bond doesn't need to throw value around into the wind hoping to attract someone. He's laser-precise and knows what he wants. And he goes after that, and gets it. Quality, not quantity. His Nimbus is on stealth mode most of the time.

DaveD was my intro to PU. The reason he worked for me back in 04 was that his perspective on being alpha and in-charge and taking power back for myself was something that I had never considered before. I was doing it, sometimes, but not consistently, and his material specifically got me thinking about my place in society and my position with women, their position with me. That was a great start.

The missing piece is this thing we've all been talking about lately, but not really fleshing out. It eludes many of us, self included when I'm stressed out thinking too much. This thing is the key to why the RSD guys are doing it right: strong internally-driven male sexuality worn on your outsides. I've been calling it Sexual State Projection, or SSP, I am not sure who coined the phrase but wasn't me.

D and other PU gurus miss this point about SSP entirely. Sure D's got programs about male sexuality etc whatever the fuck, whatever. They are gay because they dance around the topic and never really cut to the heart of matters. And many many many programs are about the tactical technology, not about the SOUL of what it means to "pick up" women. Tons of friends have gone on-program with other companies and none have reported significant inroads to the core concept of SSP.

Here is cutting to the heart of matters:

About a month ago I was having a beer with some woman, 35 y.o. attractive. We'd been there for about 5 minutes thus far, just long enough to order a beer and we were finding a place to sit. We walk outside, she says something like "I'm not dating anybody, but I'd date YOU." I'm walking in front of her. Upon hearing these words, I stop, turn around, say nothing, put my arms around her, pull her close and kiss her for about 5 minutes in the doorway while people are trying to get in and out around us and I ignore them completely. Took her breath away. A deliberately small example, but illustrative of my point that any man can do it, it's JUST a kiss: Putting it out there. Relentlessly. Without hesitation. Desire without attachment.

Other examples that go much deeper (lol):
-Ciaran's Shock and Awe
-MW's follow-up
-JD's qualifying women post
-Perseverance's Church Lay report
-Jeffy and Alex's demos on BC, and their LRs that come up time-to-time
-Other same-day reports, from kiss-to-fuck, incl mine on the virg
-All Fool's Mate Game reports

What they share in common: rapid escalation, state projection, STRONG MALE SEXUALITY EXPRESSED IN REAL TIME. Nothing tentative, brainy, thought out in advance, calculating, routine-based, a-to-b-to-c-no-wait-d, nothing canned, practiced or fake. Nimbus in full effect, calibrated, and with style and panache on the range from James Bond smooooth to King-of-Aces style DOUBLE-BARRELED ALL-OUT TANK-ATTACK.

I'll take this "controversial" topic one step further. Pick-Up & Game are for KIDS. SSP is for MEN.

Anything less than Thermonuclea

Dj's 1001 th Post

2008-03-28T14:13:00.000-07:00

Wow. A thousand and one posts. Honestly, I never thought I'd last that long. When I started, I was a dabbler, and a poor one at that. And now...shit, it's a fucking party in New Jersey nearly every night.

Now that I get to join that nice echelon of profound people with 4 digits worth of posts, I wanted to step away from that headspace mysticism I've been living and breathing and crack open my head for the fleshy goodness.

I'm laying myself bare, notebook-style. Take from this what you want, I'm offering it all.

I absolutely love the Community and everyone in it. Wouldn't trade a second of it for anything else.

I cannot believe I ever lived in such fear, with such repression and with such anxiety. I cannot believe I was that much of a clueless slob. I'm stunned and empowered by all the transformation I've undergone. Thank you, personally and sincerely for reading and responding and helping me.

Now, the meat...

If I had to write a very simple list of what I'm all about, it would look like this:

Fundamentals of John

Self-Esteem/ Confidence
Positivity
The ability to self-analyze
Radiant Charisma
Being in the moment

I know who I am. I do not doubt this knowledge. I know my strengths. I know my abilities. I am well aware of my limitations. I exist in a state of balance, straddling the limitless potential with the realistic attainment of such goals.

There is a profound power in the Reframe. Perception IS projection, so why not perceive the best? At the core of all things is an underlying goodness to nature, so why not return to that core frequency? Why not tune into that?

Self-analysis generates HONEST understanding in an environment of Objectivity. I can remove the ego and emotions from an LR to gather an actual sense of what went on, and use this to develop learning.

The cup of value OVERFLOWS, how can I not share this with the universe? Armed with an unending, boundless love and appreciation for all things, there is no reason to not share that joy with people. I love traffic because it encourages me to be a careful driver. I love living healthfully, because I can see the physical effects. I love frustration, not because it is a failure, but rather because it is momentum to move me forward. I didn't even know I had a cup of value when I started, I just knew I had a penis and wanted to put it into women. Now I get to do that AND expand myself as a man. Awesome.

The moment is the ONLY point in time you need to worry about. You cannot control the future nor can you redo the past. There is no sense wasting energy worrying about what was already done and comparing it to what hasn’t been done yet. As that time in worry elapses, you are losing the moment.

I get asked a lot about what my game is. Is it just whatever hot-button idea comes down the pike? Am I just a Ciaran-sheep? Do I even care about the particulars of game? I really thought about this and tried to easily label what it is I do regularly in order to give you:

John's Game

1.Shock and Awe
2.Sexual State Projection
3.Options and Freedom

The radiant charisma overwhelms people. It leads them not into discomfort but rather immediately into a place of valued comfort. Talking with me, listening to me is as regular and normal as sitting in your favorite chair. It’s not effort. It’s enjoyable. What I say is not scary or offensive, but rather appreciated, considered and enjoyed. The positive response encourages more of it to come. Nothing is wasted. Nothing is taken for granted.

The ability to completely be honest and open with your desires and your lack of denial about them is paramount in success with people. The desires need not only be sexual. You can just as easily express business concerns undeniably with coworkers. You can express social desires with your friends. The fact that some desires are sexual in nature is not a reason to hide under your blanket and cower from them. They are a part of you just as natural and welcoming as eating dessert or wanting to hang out with your friends.

You are the best option for anyone in any situation. No matter who they are, nor how poor their night has been, you will undeniably change their life. You are her best option. You do this by knowing yourself, believing in yourself, understanding her wants, and understanding your best options logistically. In this knowledge is freedom. Freedom from
- Social conditioning – knowing what is best is not always the most courteous, most soft or the most sensitive.
- The concerns about AA - wouldn’t you want to know what the best thing to do is?
- The fear of rejection – how can you reject the best option in a situation?

In this freedom, you can then set them free. (I give full credit to Jack Diesel for this theme, I just expanded on it his excellent groundwork)

* * *

So, now, having spit all that out, I have some views that need to be out there. I have no fancy title for this section, these are just little ideas in my head that have clawed their way to the surface.

Game is a LIFEstyle, and therefore requires LIFE changes. An unwillingness to change even the most core part of you is an unwillingness to succeed. Be prepared to rebuild yourself from the ground up, a million times if you must, because your success not only with women but in all aspects of your life comes to depend on this.

You are never going to find a valid reason that game cannot be this easy. It involves talking to people. Talking is really simple. You’ve been doing it for years. You’re a pro.

Logistics are NOT obstacles they are challenges. They are permeable, changeable and adaptable. The only true obstacle you’ll ever encounter is YOU.

In any interaction, follow theory but do not live by theory. Evolution is not a fixed concept. Evolution is adaptation.

Once you make this kind of change in your life, you cannot hide it. The effects are too broad and too powerful. Nor should you even bother trying to hide it. Do not be ashamed. Associate no stigma with what you’ve done. You did not get on the Internet to get laid, no, you got onto the Internet to learn to be a better man.

Give yourself permission to be yourself, to succeed, to accept all others, flaws and all. From the biggest chode to the biggest AMOG. They are people too.

Set practical goals. Goals that are you-based, not game-based. “I need to engage more two sets in rapid kino” versus “Hotties get more hugs.” The amount of theory you let seep into your life is proportional to the amount of life you let seep out.

Game is only as mystifying or as difficult as you make it.

11 Things I want Keyboard Jockeys, Newbies and Lurkers to Know

- You are going to fail. It’s going to make you better. Let it happen.
- Assign no stigma to your failures. It’s the learning process.
- It is entirely possible to hit state without pickup happening. State is self-contained and self-generated, so learn your triggers and succeed.
- Do not drink Haterade nor too much of the magic cool-aid. You’re not too cool for anything. Nor is anything designed to help you “gay”. Get over yourself. No idea is inherently lame. Just give it a try before you break out hasty labels.
- Sex is not magical. Virgins, sex won’t fix you. It won’t complete you. All your missing puzzle pieces are internal.
- Anger will always kill you. Find out why you’re angry.
- Good ideas for game exist inside and outside of the community. Keep aware.
- No one person has ALL the answers.
- Some answers won’t make sense until you ask better questions.
- When in doubt, do it. What are you afraid of?
- State is all within you. So what can break your state? Just you!

I swear this is the last set of random thoughts I'm going to share. For now.

My view on using the word “sarging”
It’s named after a cat. Unless you’re going to engage in other cat behaviors, meeting people IS NOT sarging. Just as we killed "peacocking" from the dictionary, let's also assassinate "sarging". Please?

My view on Jargon
It’s dangerous, toxic to both vibe and interaction. It is one of the prime ingredients in a sausagefest (chode crystal). Using jargon replaces humanity with labels and provides the ego a cushion with a false sense of control.

My view on “mastery”
Mastery implies the full completion of skills, that no further expansion or growth is possible. Mastery is not realistic. A community such as this MUST grow not only in participants but also theory. The idea of mastery is static, a sign of stalled evolution. It flies directly in the face of growing skills.

My view on Value
Your value is not measured solely by sexual prowess. Value is the sum of internal worth, social worth, a lack of neediness, lack of external completion and a quality life embodied through quality actions. The “cup of value” is variable, depending on the person. Some people have a shot glass; some people a 55-gallon drum. Are you satisfied with your cup?

I have completely run amok here. Thanks.

Manwhore's 1000th Post

2008-03-28T14:11:00.001-07:00

Controlling your Emotional State:
Most people base their emotional state, their idea of success, and even their own self-esteem on where they think society would place them. Whether it be because we see the media pick apart celebrities and politicians or because magazines and the like tell us what to wear, look like, and even act like- this idea is ingrained in us- it is fundamental- it is our lens on reality.

But the problem is not that some magazine has a cool and interesting idea on how they think a male should act and look- but that people now doubt their own originality and way of doing things. Basic things like uttering a thought outloud, people's opinions on their own personal talents and skills- i.e. an artist thinking he's shit 'cuz he can't play sports, even being in tune and acting on your desires- it's all done through a filter. Fuck the filter. Are you where you want to be, are you taking action in your life? Are you working to improve yourself..? Take your own word for how you think you should feel. Everyone else will take your word for it. People will only judge you for how you judge yourself. Now realize that some of you will have to work a little harder at this because you are dealing with people who think they know who you are and don't want you to change.

A friend of mine snuck her 16 year old sister into a bar- they'd had dinner there earlier and then never left. Someone who knew her got jealous of the attention she was getting from the guys and told management. So security came for her sister and took her to another part of the bar to question her. My friend found me with a scared bewildered look on her face- her emotional/mental state was hopeless- she was in no condition to do anything to help her sister. She had been completely overwhelmed by the situation. She asked if I could do anything. I went and found her sister being questioned by security- she was in even worse condition- they were questioning her about how she got into the bar and she couldn't even form words to talk. She was just looking up imploringly at the bouncer with a helpless and scared look on her face. The problem at this point is that the bouncer could tell the girl was under his spell, it was power and he really didn't want to give it up. He'd projected a frame of her being guilty and she'd fallen right into it, he was master at this point. I walked up, announced calmly to the guy that she had been having dinner with her sister earlier and that now she was now going to simply leave. It took him a bit to even want to acknowledge me, I repeated myself firmly and said she just needed to leave now. She got some of her bearing back and nodded her head in acknowledgement. He stood there for a couple seconds more and then simply said, "ok go."

"Hey.. do you believe in magic spells? " I do

This is typical. Every day people react to situations in the manner in which they think they should be reacting or are used to reacting. It's like they live in a program: the social Matrix. 'Ok I got caught.. cue negative feelings of guilt, insecurity and bullshit.' Or 'She doesn't like me, there must be something wrong with me. I'm not good enough to get women like that.' Do NOT let someone or something- a situation- project a negative frame onto you. Own your emotional reaction. It is yours to control! Realize that you can choose to let something bother you and ruin your day- or not. Your emotions and feelings aren't meant to just come and go based on external factors.. I think some people think they are. Discipline your mind. Otherwise someone will perceive they have authority over you and own you, a woman will see these cues and not give you the time of day. A woman will look to your cues to see how to react to you and how to perceive you- are you high value? Does her little attitude bother you? If it does then you're not what she wants.. this is the female screening process.

Real Communication: Male/Female Dynamics
Some of you guys seem hardwired to be combative with girls... like you need for them to validate your dominant frame or at least recognize it. You don't..

In the past I would be guilty of this also, I look back now and realize that if I'd just not allowed myself to become involved in these situations (mentally or emotionally), there wouldn't have been an issue, and these females would responded to me much better. Women were never meant to be the judge of a guy's value.. they are hardwired to pick at it! If a guy allows a girl any room to be a judge of his value- he is automatically lower value. I think this might actually apply across the board of human interaction.

Girls are.. girls. They aren't meant -or even enough- to bring out my dominant side. But my vibe communicates that I seriously handle my shit. They know it.. but they won't have to experience it themselves. This is actually what they want. We are men.. we fight lions, the earthly elements, provide strong emotional context for what matters and what doesn't (when girlies wrap themselves emotionally around dumb shit), and.. WE DO NOT GET IN CONTESTS WITH WOMEN.

A quick note on comfort building: Introduce your values- don't just go for a stronger emotional connection. You should be using this time to make her realize you are nonjudgmental about her being a sexual creature and acting on her desires. I've heard some guys post that the girl "figures out" what you're doing and maybe even calls you on it. But this shouldn't be a problem. Project. Project feeling and sincerity. Body language, eye contact and voice. I make girls comfortable talking about and expressing their sexuality. I communicate that this is just the kind of dude I am- it's my reality. Your identity needs to be that of a guy who gives and receives attention from females. Freeflow. You just.. respond to things different than other guys. You can be the guy who banged a girl in a closet, and there's a guy right next to you who's getting sexual harrassment charges for being creepy, because.. his behavior is just not acceptable in the workplace. He didn't give himself permission to be this way, acted incongruent- therefore he didn't deserve to be acting like that. Girls picked up on this. I just read Tyler's article on the "Secret Society". That's what I'm talking about here..

Controlling your frame before projecting sexuality:
A lot of guys probably think I'm some rabid sexual monster- that I just lay on the sexual vibe without regard to the mental state of the woman I am talking to- that my skill lies in so***** getting a woman to accept the strong game I "throw" at her. This is really not the case- it is actually very well calibrated to the state she's in.. the difference is that I can actually put her there- I can get her ready for what I really want. When I recognize her signs (basically how strong she's reacting to my cues) I act on them, I grab her and pull her in, I give her sexual eye contact, I tell her upfront what I'm going to do to her, I lift up her skirt or gaze at her body plainly. Maybe she's not ready for something so potent, so I'll calibrate to the level she's at, rinse wash repeat. The most important thing I can do, is touch her. More on this later.

Some girls I can be quite upfront with, others I know I have to approach the topic in a roundabout way- either they're just not in touch with it because of ASD or they're just not sexual people. I do this with some skill- usually through misinterpretation, jokes, telling her a story that starts off sounding so innocent but with a sexual side, or just through plain kino. One girl who I could tell was quite reserved and out of touch with her sexuality I told a story about a physical I got from a doctor who wanted to turn off the lights so he could "get a better look". So when I was done we started talking about her experiences with gynecologists- she said it was uncomfortable being laid out naked on a table and having them use steel instruments on her. I was laughing, It was a perfect opportunity- I realized her frame on it was negative, so what I did was project a fun positive vibe about her lying there like that, and then told her if it had been me I would have put my instruments in the freezer before she came in. She laughed. So I turned an uncomfortable topic for her into a fun one and then put myself in it in a sexual way. This wasn't a natural flow of the conversation either- it was a buildup of sexualness and I was listening to her cues to make sure she was in my frame. It's more than realizing she's actually listening to me and building off the thread I start, it's listening for her tonal responsiveness to my reality. When she's accepted my take on things then I know I can proceed.

I control, or take over the frame with vocal and tonal projection. Bottom line. Eye contact is already there, so is relaxed confident body language. You need to have these down already. Be relaxed with yourself and your surroundings. There is no reason not to be relaxed around people and be able to look people in the eye and stand there relaxed.. people want you to be this way. They're more comfortable this way. But don't concern yourself with acting overly "cool" or Alpha. Just. Be. Relaxed. "The Self is always showing through.."

Going back to vocal projection- a lot of people say don't care about other people's reaction to you, yet when you're socializing and projecting this seems almost counterintuitive.. aren't you trying to get a reaction? Aren't we "running game"? We are actively looking for compliance cues from females and even males- so how can we not care? I understand the point of this whole "don't care what people think" but for new guys who don't understand the underlying concept it possibly confuses them. Maybe a more helpful framing of this concept would be to say that when you speak, sound like you expect a good reaction- that you want people to hear what you have to say, more than just trying to get people's attention- your mannerism demands it. So you project it for all to hear with a carefree attitude. Realize that this is what a socially well-calibrated person actually sounds like. There's a solid Mmmphf to your voice.. it doesn't waiver or falter, and it does not fade off. If you find yourself saying something that you don't think is going to be acceptable, you either cut yourself off with a "-wait fuck that that's not what I meant" or just say it and act normal. Do not ever let your sentence trail away into obscurity or your voice fall into a mumble. That is death.

I am a military officer- I have to sound like I'm in charge. Whether I'm telling dudes to mop the floors or we're rolling up on an "enemy" position and my platoon needs my directives, My voice can say so much about my internal state- I need it to say I'm the one they should be listening to.

But I modulate my voice to the environment I'm in. I'm not going to be barking all the time- even with my soldiers. When I was in sales and I was speaking to a housewife I made my voice sound "nicer" and sweeter, when I had a male customer my voice hardened slightly. Calibration. When a guy pulled a gun in my face I spoke evenly and calmly, I did not let the situation escalate by sounding scared, or sounding aggressive, I think my buddy pooed his pants though and that ruined it- the dude smelled his fear.

My tonality is flexible- I want it to be able to communicate different things when I want. My projection remains even- I have something to communicate and you and you and you, are going to listen. You can hold attention with your voice- 'When I speak.. people listen.' Even if you're not in the mood to be social and be the party guy it doesn't mean you have to sound like you're a lesser value guy. Answer people with gusto- be comfortable holding attention when it is required or asked of you, even if for a little bit.

When I speak with females my voice is softer and has a greater tonality range. Sometimes I even coo. I don't "bark" at females, they don't want to be barked at, they just want to know that you have the capacity to bark. They might try to instigate you, at this point you want to be unreactive, but if they overstep your boundaries then you quickly let them know. And then subside.. we fight lions and tigers.. a male getting into a power contest with a female shows a fundamental weakness on his part. A man does not fret over what a woman thinks of him.

More on the military.. Many senior NCOs- E6s and above- are used to being able to project over an inexperienced or unsure Lieutenant, even though the LT outranks them- it's taking advantage, and I can't blame them. I walked into a situation the other day where a senior NCO was putting another Lieutenant on the spot over something silly- it wasn't even an accusation, just a way of projecting and phrasing something that made the Lieutenant feel like he was obligated to answer the NCO the way he wanted. Then he tried it on me, not quite the same reaction.. I just stood there looking at him and said "WHAT?" Simple projection of my voice- no accusation, just subcommunicating to him that I knew my role and I was sure of myself. The frame changed. By looking at him evenly and comfortably- and speaking the same way, his manner of communicating changed, This wasn't about me "being in charge." I don't need stupid validation like that, this was a man to man "don't pull that crap on me" vibe. Simple mutual respect.

Physicalness is the last key:
I was with my wing SDC (Austin) a couple of weeks ago in San Diego's PB Bar & Grill. I saw two very attractive blonds sitting down at the bar having a drink. I opened them with "HEEY are you speaking Spanish..?" With a quizzical look on my face, I was slightly leaned in, demanding an answer but my overall vibe was one of fun. She laughed and said something. I laughed and said something. Blah blah. Then they continued on their conversation- I heard one of them say to the other about some guy being "so anal about this shit!" I leaned in again.. "By the way.. (pause and quickly look at the other girl before continuing on) I'm anal about my shit too " They both laughed- the set was now open. I slowly escalated sexual topic until we were talking about blowjobs and facials and the like. One of the girls was a pregnant housewife- gorgeous girl, and she asked me why some guys liked pregnant women. I made up a reason on the spot about how us guys put a pillow under a girl's tummy to lift up her bottom and give us better access to it- whether we're tonguing her down or entering her from behind- and that her being pregnant did this for us already. I got them talking very freely about their sexuality, the things they wanted to try and stuff. I told the single girl I was going to find us a mexican girl to take home with us, she laughed and gave a little resistance. Anyways long story short I got her number and myspace and then told them we were going to take off, I leaned in and pulled her into me to give her a hug and kiss, shook the other girl's hand and we walked away. SDC said to me, "All that 'game', all that sexual stuff you were talking about with them, didn't mean anything until you gave her a hug." FUCK! He was so right. It really didn't mean anything, didn't have any kind of real connection. The real anchor is always in physical touch.

The Claw: If you guys aren't comfortable touching a girl and being relaxed and confident about it, you're fucked. You just aren't gonna get laid. I've talked to a couple of you who have actually told me, "Well I just don't like to be touched.. it makes me uncomfortable." Women are sensual creatures, they can tell a lot about a person through how they're touched by them. Is this person comfortable in his own skin enough to be that close with someone else? Do they see themselves as high value enough and their reality strong enough that they can just assume someone else would want to be part of it? Is this person a sexually experienced person? This is why the claw is so powerful- it's attraction/comfort/dominance/seduction/fool's mate all in one. Remember you don't just put your arm around her shoulder like a wet dishrag, you grab her, hold her and pull her in to you. The claw is dynamic- the grip is dynamic- it's not a feeling she can dismiss like background noise- she feels it's presence at all times.

When I meet a girl for a first date I immediately get physical with her. I'll casually walk up on the side of her and claw her in, I'll give her a squeeze and then let her go- walking at my own pace and letting her fall in-step with me. If she says something cute or we make random eye contact I'll pull her in to a light headlock, maybe give her a noogie and then push her away from me. When I'm out publicly with her I project vocally to whoever I'm interacting with- whether it be a movie ticket salesman or a waiter. She wants to see this. When we sit down together I take up a lot of space, I subtly take over her area also. This is why I like taking girls to see a movie- my physical presence is just so palpable with her sitting next to me. At this point I will reach my arm that's on her side across her body to her opposite thigh and hold her there, slightly pulling her in. It's another version of the claw. I'll pull her in and slightly behind me so my shoulder is in front of hers and I'm slightly leaning back against her. Picture this. She feels very protected and in your space whether she realizes it or not. It's a very dominant way to sit with a girl.

I think there's pros and cons to taking a girl to any type of movie- I take her to a movie that I want to see. I like horror movies and action flicks- but If scary movies make you nervous let me know, I'll give your girl a call and explain things to her.

I don't always employ the claw when I am first meeting girls- I'd say when I'm in the club, at a bar, walking the streets or approaching girls randomly I use it immediately about 60-65% of the time. But I can tell when she's not immediatley open, in which case I'll open with something else to prep her for my physicalness. I'm very sensitive to her state- usually if she's willing to stand there and talk to you even for a second and respond to you she wants to be clawed, if she wants to be clawed she's open to be kissed.

Yes I use the claw during the day.

A lot of you guys don't know or refuse to take on the role you are meant to have in male/female interactions. You want the comfort and security of knowing that she's going to respond well to your advances. You want us to tell you the exact scientific steps to opening her up and compelling her to make the moves. Stop being a vagina. You are not a vagina. You are all males.. know your role. Males are aggressive and bold about their actions and desires. Females are biologically hardwired to respond to this. Sure you might have a girl not respond well to your initial advance. Boohoo. We do not apologize for our desires as males. Some women might try and see if we will apologize- they might put on a good show for us.. but this isn't what they want. This is the difference between coming off as a creepy horndog, and a masculine, Alpha male with a naturally strong sexual drive. These guys have permission to be this way.. they take it. The others don't.

Do not think you'll be able to hide your own desires, not having to act on them until she makes the first move.
Take responsibility for the fact that you will lead the interaction with the girl. This isn't about your comfort. It's about hers..

Also realize that you don't have to be concerned with every single little body nuance or flash of eye contact. I am not 100% ultra-masculine all of the time. It doesn't matter.. she knows what I am from my overall communication. After a certain point her perception of you will be so set that when she does notice something not quite rock-hard in mannerism, she'll appreciate it even more. She'll feel she's earned a peek at your softer more vulnerable side. She wants to see this- she wants to know you have this side of you- this is established comfort with her.

Violence and Amogs:
The military has a lot to offer on this concept. So much is fundamentally built into teaching us the way to communicate. I deal sometimes with soldiers who have fucked up enough to be decreed unfit for military duty. Disrespectful, noncompliant, whatever.. they're out- and they know it. Yet when I am present there is no room for any of this bullshit. My mannerisms and way of acting only allows for them to treat me with respect. I don't look to them to see if I'm doing the right thing, or if I'm being a "cool" Lieutenant, or if they're listening to what I'm saying. I walked into a situation where four of these soldiers were standing face to face, red and screaming, about to throw blows. I walked right into the middle of it- absolutely no room or time for hesitation. "What the FUCK is going on here.. All of you- go downstairs." That was it. There was no room for them to project an aggressive attitude on me- I wanted to know what they were doing. I was the one projecting- not them.

I had an ex-girlfriend a few years ago who went into the boys bathroom with her friend because the girl's line was so long. A bouncer put his hands on them and basically forced them out. They immediately got into a confrontation with the guy- yelling, screaming, calling him names. He got aggressive- standing there with fists clenched, calling them names back and acting threatening- a hulking black guy getting in a confrontation with two little 5'5" females. All of it absolutely worthless and wasted effort. He attempted to talk to me- but I wanted nothing to do with him. I was not going to directly address him and let him think we were on the same level. I called for his manager. The manager came, immediately trying to use his bulk to cower me. It didn't even enter into my reality. I explained to him what happened and told him he had a physically aggressive bouncer putting his hands on females. He said, "But they were in the boys bathroom." I looked at him calmly and said, "That's not the point." He said.. "you're right." and sent the guy walking immediately. Stupidly the bouncer and the two girls were still fighting with each other as he walked off down the street.

Ask me..

LR HB9 Stripper

2008-03-28T13:35:00.000-07:00

LR : HB9 Stripper

this LR is old .... with a few sets from the weeks before and advice im listening

Crazy night ..... havent really been posting Fr's but i've been going out almost every night i'll give a quick review of my recent sets b4 getting into the LR

Bcuz of this promotion job I dont open sets to close that day .... I approach sets with the mind frame of getting them into the Club i promote at , once they get there then I show them the social status i have and the sets are usually easy from there ..... anyways

these are the sets that stand out the most

HB 9 In Solas
+ Opened set that alot of people were stalling out on to challenge myself
+ Convo follows
Me: (BR Tone) Hey Hey YOU !
Hb: Umm yes ?
Me: are you good with paper work ?
Hb: yes you can say that
me: great your hired
hb: hired ? for what
me: your my manager .... now come with me
hb: (to friend) this is gunna be interesting

+ Set blows open and im in there
+ We role play for a little bit and its a real cool interaction
+ convo lasts about 30 mins

Low Points
- There was a seat near by i should have led her to and escalated where her friends couldnt see her, but i didnt think of it til some1 else took the seat
- i didnt Kino as much as i usually do but i thru some Kino in there

HB 8 Dr .... El Sok
Winging with Haze tell's me 2 open a 1 set that was waiting on the bathroom
+ Open in direct once after a mention or 2 about the open i switch threads
+ Its a good convo so good she forgets she has 2 go twinkle
+ Get deeper into the convo and tells me shes a DR (whoa) ...
+ tell her when i become a Nba player she can be my personal Dr's
+ she agrees
+ go for the number close she tells me she never gives out her number but she asks for mine .... I give it to her after rejecting her at 1st and she says she'll call

Hb 8 El Sok
+ Seated 4 Set
+ Enter with Breaking Rapport in a loud Venue and stops the conversation (nice)
+ Im running the set ....I go to introduce Wing (Haze) but he already left
+ The whole set hooks but 2 of the females are really payin me attention
+ # close then eject as they all start smoking

HB*8* Apt
Dave told me to post this Set bcuz it was rather strange
+ S Hero is in town has a 5 set opened and engaged off and on
+ I choose a target open it
+ Blows open ... and S Hero re enters the set
+ Me and him move our sets to another seated area
+ My Hb's all into the set
+ I go for the kiss close she moves ????? WTF
+ then she goes in her bag and applies her lip gloss so im like fuck yea its on
+ But shes watching her friends i guess shes not tryna Kclose in front of her friend
+ Her friend leaves then , she follows her friends
+ Me and S Hero have a double FClose comming ( fuck yea) but her friends dont want them 2 leave so they totally cockblock the Fclose ..... S Hero keeps plowing but they refuse

Hb9 Stripper
+ Met at work alot of EC
+ Open indirect switch to Direct
+ Mentions something about likeing strippers i tell her I am one
+ We vibe for a few ... I suck her into my frame , and make her realize whos the Prize
+ Convo gets sexual early .... she tells me shes Bi
+ invite her out Monday night
+ Looking rather sexy But im sexier .... so I remain the prize that she is trying to win over
+ I introduce her to people and tell her the creeps wont speak 2 her if im around and leave her.... She follows me around SHUTTING DOWN EVERYONE THAT OPENS HER haha
+ Even though i didnt need 2 I Amog'd and said no one here is cooler than me and my wing ( Haze ) ..... I keep pushing her away , shes clinging 2 me .... I wish it was a better night so i can open sets in front of her to show her i wasnt worried
+ She starts throwing out sexual comments about her ass I tell her i'll see it later ....
She ask's " How do you know im going home with you ?"
I Look at her like she just asked the stupidest question in the world ... **Shit test passed**
next shit test .... " So when we get to you house what will we do?" ( For those that dont know .... your lack of a creative answer can foil your fclose .... even if she knows she wants to have sex you have to give her like an excuse for her subconcious mind)
I tell her "im tired so ill probably let you keep herself company .... But Since im not always a self centered bastard i'll find something for you to do but how about we worry about geting from point A to Point B and worry about C later"

+ She complies we get to my house glorious nite glorious Sex ....
+ I tell her 2day that sex earned you a long term fuck buddy she laughs and agrees

Mon Feb 25th

2008-03-28T13:33:00.003-07:00

Last day of my leave i Had to go out with a bang !

start the day txt'ing Hb's I've never closed and trying to find at least 3 to close the same day . Since it was last minute i couldnt meet up with a few Hb's but i managed to make some plans . I went to the massage parlor and received the Massage of fucking Destiny , like i seriously feel like Ive been living and my body has been sleep my whole life , I felt rejuvinated ! So this pumped up my Nimbus even more

Hb8 Shawntay

Sin: Its my last day in nY ,i think you should spend a few hours with me ...
HB8: and whys that ?
Sin: umm duh bcuz im me , what time do you get out of school ?
hb: 2 20
Sin : so when you get out of school meet me downtown Bk , call when you get there

She comes thru , minimal resistance but another Fclose

Hb BX 8.5
This is a female Ive been talking to for years but never closed because our logistics were almost always bad , and the schedules never mixed . I called her and after a 10 min convo she decides to come meet up with me after work . I lead her to my room , Makeout with no resistance . Then it went weird after this ...

She starts to take my clothes off BUTTTTT at the same time shes trying to resist ??? Ive known her for a while , but this was confusing . She's telling me shes not sure if she wants to do this but shes unbuttoning my pants and taking off my shirt . She then takes her pants off and about after 20 mins she stops because shes feeling to much pain (she hasnt had sex in a while it was like this >>>>>>>>>>> o <<<<<<<<<>

Feb 24th

2008-03-28T13:33:00.001-07:00

24th

Pretty easy day
I wake up txt a few old FB's about comming thru to see me , i had a few replies i just had to choose which 1 wisely

Fb Lisandra 8
Sin: Im home and horny .... how long will it take you to get here i have things to do later ...
Fb: Im at my homegirls house she says maybe about 30 mins ,
Sin: sounds good , but how long will it take you to get ready ?
Fb: i just have to get dressed , i showered
Sin: so make it happen ....

She comes over , Close .... send her about her way and relax with my little cousins for a while .

I call Hb'FD from the night before and we discuss plans for the day . I told her to get ready and I'll call her when im Done hanging with my cousins.

Note*** For those that dont know , this is my 1st Day2 on a "date" ... Usually i try to game enough over the phone and in person so the next time we meet its in my house. The reason is when your out on an actual date you have to be continuously gaming from the time you meet her til the time that she leaves and some times dry periods on a day2 can foil a potential Fclose.

Anyways i meet her in the city shes looking sexy as hell . Soft Skin , Blue eyes , Blonde hair , Beautiful shape .... I was loving the claw of glory around her Waist . so we go to the movies I pay we're inside im just being laid back and being *Me* . The rapport is very deep and touch alot of topics that usually takes a few days to get into . After the movies we go to a restuarant
"The Coffee Shop " Around the Famous Union Sq . she pays for the dinner and we relax for a few . I go for the pull back to my apartment but she says she has to work in the morning , then she said she would invite me to her apartment but her roomate was also sleeping for work , so I took her home and then went home

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Nimbus of Glory

2008-03-28T13:32:00.001-07:00

Nimbus Of Glory

Sat Feb 23rd
I Get home for the first day of my 3 day pass Late Saturday night and make plans to meet up With Law and L.Prince. I hit up an Old HB that i havent fucked since b4 RSD

Sin: Where are you ?
Hb Model: im at work ? why .... are you home ?
Sin: umm yea you can say that not 4 long though , when do you get off ?
hb: Im not working im just at work ..
Sin: Come 2 my house I have to see you
Hb : ill be there in 30 mins
Sin : Do me a favor .... buy me some condoms , gold wrappers
Hb: no0o0o , What do you need condoms for ... who are you fucking ? lolz

She comes over I Close .... she leaves i go to handle my business

I Get to fat baby its freezing outside and my motivation is starting to slowly drop because im to cold to put a sentence together !

I get inside , see Law and we talk for a while ( Law was saying to me that the training is getting me bigger , he motivated me to get back into the gym as much as possible I love to bulge ha ) We go upstairs and i Open a 4 set because law told me they were all giving me tons of IOI's .... I open the 4 set

Sin: " Ladies !!!!!!!!! WHatsup !!!!!!!!!!
Hb's: WHATSSUPPPPP

law grabs two of them immediately and i grab the other 2 . I feel so amped at the moment ! Both of the Hb's were sexy so i game them both but then lock on to the more quieter one . She starts to open up once i start plow'ing thru her little defense and then the other two girls come back onto set and drag my two away .... BUMMER

Hb Jap 9.8999
at this point im still amped .... In my mind im telling myself that im not going for quantity but more quality , so i only open females who I FEEL are to my standards . Why get 20 numbers if i wont be here to call them ? I then proceed to a 3 set (1 guy two girls). With HbJap in it .... she was as close to a 10 as ever , i'll give her a 9.89999 . The guy has all his attention on the other girl who was about an 8.9 . So i enter the set

LASER EYES ....
Sin: " Hey whatsup !"
HbJap: (smiles) Hi how are you
Sin : Im glorious , your sexy I had to approach you ....
Hb: lol is that so ?

As soon as i opened her i felt the guy in the set staring me down .... so of course i befriend him
Sin: whoa you guys are the coolest here , especially him .... is he with you ?
Hb: yes they both are this is Blah and blah
Sin: Hey whatsup man
Guy: nothing much you know trying to warm up
Task complete

The guy ejects , and law enters the set for a while and then ejects . Im gaming HbJap and the obstacle is interupting in the set so i eject (after the #close) bfore i get blown out ....

I come back to the set and hype a Chode into gaming the obstacle ( Come on man she just looked at you , shes feeling you man go for it ) He enters set I claw HbJap

Sin: Im Bored , you know what were gunna do ?
Hb: whats that ?
Sin: Roleplay
Hb: omg who roleplays in the middle of a club ?
Sin: I do .... dont worry i wont ask you to be the sexy teacher and im the bad student until later in the night ... haha
Hb: lol so what will we be ?
Sin: Im the world Known Artist and your my lovely new assistant

We roleplay for a while and when the chode gets blown out (says she was acting like a bitch ) I invite her friend in , and said she can be my little sister ...

Were all roleplaying for a while i feel the sets going beautifully and then the chode from the beginning come back and hands them there jackets and says its time 2 go ... so they leave i get back to my Wing's who are currently in set .....
Quick note to L.Prince dude all that damn energy you should focus on your damn nimbus i swear to everything you have the most energy i've ever seen in a night club haha

HB Fashion Designer 9
Now this set i feel i ran perfectly
She's walking in my direction i stop her ...
Sin: Omg a biker chick ? i always wanted 1 of those
hb: yea im a biker chick, a sexy one though lol
Sin: O really thats cool maybe you can RIDE me around for a bit
hb: lol sure my bikes right outside ... Nah im joing im not a biker girl i just like the jacket !
Sin: yea i can see .... But if you were a biker girl ....
Hb: yea ....
Sin .... And it was you ... and I on it , where would we go ?
Hb: Umm i would say Georgia ! I love it down there blah blah

This set is going smoooothly , Law and L.P head back down stairs . It was actually a 4 set but they didnt interfere with the set at all , I multi Threaded through so many different topics then she stops me ... and says

Hb: BTW what is your name ?
Sin: Sincere .... call me Sin if your nasty
Hb: lol seriously ? I love that name its so sexy but does it fit you ?

I then start to qualify her , and shes trying so hard to be everything i like ... I told her i Love adventurous girls because they do things other people may think they shouldnt and she agreed , she also told me she was spontaneous but at the same time she like to have a schedule for certain events , This was my best set by far since joining the community . It lasts about an hour she buys me a drink , I go for the Pull and invite her back to my place but she told me she cant BuT we can link up the next day and hang out . So we set up the Day2 and she introduces me to the rest of her Circle . Her roomate , boss and long time friend . As shes leaving she comes back to me at least 3 times and gives me a kiss on the cheek , and reminds me to call her .... I go outside jump on the cab and go home !!!!!

My Nimbus is growing !

Law 16

2008-03-28T13:20:00.000-07:00

Law 16: Use Absecne to increase respect and honor

One of the basic laws of PU ... Do not make yourself To AVAILABLE i replied to a guys AIM fr and i told him this . The more available you are to this female the less she will want you bcuz she will feel you are dedicating all of your time to her . But the moment you take away all access to you and make your time more scare and more valuable her respect for you will rise more than double .... why ?

Humans work in various ways .... 1 way is that you always want something that seems like you will never have or that is just out of your reach . No its not just YOU its the human race in general . If you want a specific girl and shes married you want her more bcuz shes TABOO , but the moment shes available and shes there for you then her value to you drops .

Now reverse the situation a female is attracted to you shes comfortable around you and shes seeing you as that "sex worthy guy" , But your always answering her phone calls , you instantly reply to her txt , and your always willing to jump at every meet shes ready to set up . Your to common your presence isnt missed because its always available for her . But if you play phone tag for a minute you take hours to reply to txt msgs it takes weeks for you to to have an hour meet then she knows that your not as available to her . And the whole time that you to arent interacting her mind is brewing and you will constantly be on her mind . Because she is a beautiful female that thousands of guys will die for and you are the only one refusing to give up your appointment with your cat to take her out ... now thats powerful

this law is more in depth i suggest you definetly buy this book for more in detail information

Laws of Success

2008-03-28T13:17:00.000-07:00

Law of Success

in life and pickup ...

If anyone has anything to add please do

For people who have been involved in PU , in any community or Forum i feel these laws are ways to increase your success drastically . Not only in PU but becomming a better PERSON IN GENERAL. Alot of people mistake PU for just dealing with females, thus they dont live everyday being an Alpha Male , thus the transition from Alpha to Beta male is like living a double life . Become alpha and stay alpha .

Now also i read a post the other day when someone said that the Forum is becomming a Book Club , this is ridiculous ! This is all about self improvement and self improvement is all about Inner Game most of the Time . And If you have strong inner game half the battle on PU is already won . So it wont hurt to go into a bookstore and read alittle to see what The Buzz is about .

This post is about the "48 Laws of Power" by Robert Greene and the laws i feel if you follow will help you succeed in life and PU

Law 1
Never Outshine the Master
If you have ever found an alpha to learn from pay attention to this Law . If your learning so much from this alpha and he starts to notice that you are getting better than him he will soon start to Cut you out of his social circle and start to close you out completly . why ? Because its only natural that when alpha's find there self on that top posiition they will feel threatened by someone comming from behind and outshining them . Remember this if you have an alpha leading you in anything @ all.

Law 2
Never Put to much Trust in Friends, Learn how to use enemies
This is true . listen to my example
' I go to the club with my wing Law , Law is busy in set and i want to re-open this banging set . So i Game a chode who was overwatching my set into comming to set with me , he takes the bait enters the set .... gets blown out but by the time hes blown out i already have my set where i want it so the obstacle wont be a problem anymore. Now everytime i see this guy he high fives me and introduces me to his friends and all '

Sometimes friends are'nt there and if your using your wing as a crutch and an excuse not to open sets or go out , you will miss out on alot . I started PU by going out everynight by myself learning by myself and using this method to get me to where i am now . This is how i use and interpret this law

Law 10
Infection: avoid the unhappy and unlucky
Before PU i used to find myself constantly meeting new females by being there emotional tampon and soaking up all there problems . Now alot of people including myself may feel that there is nothing wrong with this BUT there is a big problem with this when you constantly are the emotional crutch the female will look at you as no more than a brother or close friend . So when you go to a night club and you begin gaming a female
and she starts crying and all her problems start pouring out try to avoid that area . Now alot of people may feel that you can get laid this way and you MAY . But this is building alot of Comfort by consoling her and telling her everything is going to be all right but there is no attraction or rapport . So when shes back on her feet she will look at you as no more than a close friend , brother or father . Also this unhappy person can suck the life , energy and state right from out of you .

Law 25
Recreate yourself
This is what we all are doing now . To re-create yourself is what i and others call the process of Evolution or a drastic change in which the person doesnt seem or appear the same as previously known . You can re create yourself by actually changing things about you that you can change to make you feel better about yourself . And when you begin the process of evolution do not just change a few things about you make drastic changes at once that will make you stand out as a whole and not small changes at a time .

Law 29
Plan All the Way to the End

With out a plan you cant expect a goal because you dont have a set blueprint to follow and expect results . If your goal is to fclose 5 females a week , but yet you dont have a plan or anything to follow then how can you expect the 5 females to fall into your lap ? always have a plan with an ending and along the way make sure that you include everything like obstacles , consequences , and twists so that way nothing can catch you off guard . In the army we say
" Prepare for the worst hope for the best"
If your already prepared for the worst to happen to you , when something happens it wont catch you off guard .... but if nothing happens then your plan is smooth sailing"

Law 34
Be Royal IN your Own Fashion : Act like a king to be treated like one

This one is simple .... If you walk into any type of enviorment . If you walk in carrying yourself as an Alpha you will get treated as such . No one knows you to tell if you are or arent , and even if they know that you arent The Alpha they will still treat you as such . If you carry youself as a chode you will get treated as such carry yourself the way you want to be treated . ALWAYS in ANY PLACE and you will soon see the respect and attention you are given .

other laws will be added to this post also

Overview

2008-01-12T01:48:00.000-08:00

ok From Constant Nights Sarging with my gCrew of Wings all of them have given me a few things to help me work on

1st Kino- I apply Kino .... But sometimes i just plain FORGET IT , its not really on the front of my mind BUT usually i kino with a light hug of some sort ... But sometimes i dont give them the light touch here , or the playful push here i may simply leave it out ! And even though i may tell the female im willing to speak to her after the night and keep in contact with her im not showing it thru body language im showing it thru words which may confuse the target about the message so this is a real strong SP that i am currently working on

2nd Body Language- I was told that sometimes i lean in and appear over needy. To myself i think its because im tall 6'3 and i tower over most my sets and im not expecting them to tippy toe all night to talk 2 me so i lean in a lil bit to offer a few words and receive a few also . But i have already bought a body language book and i dont expect this to be a SP for much longer !!!!

Now my personal Sticking Points ....
I see success even though the Fcloses have been slim and before this may have upset me but now i know that it is a process that must and will take time in order to be constant and succesful but my main problem is being easily talked out of my frame and into a females.... and once this happens its hard to recover but its also another thing im working on it

now since this is my 1st actualy blog post , but i have so many approached i will just mention sets that are worthy of being noticed

the Start

2008-01-12T01:31:00.000-08:00

Where do i start ?

Ok with the introduction and alittle about me . Born and raised in the mean streets of Brooklyn New York , Im currently 21 and stumbled into the world of Pickup thru the marvelous show " The PUA"

Im the type of person that feels if certain things work for certain people then i mind as well give it a try . So I read MM and the game and was 1st a student of MM. I believed routines really were the way even though i never received more than a phone number I believed that this MM worked. So i went out confidently twice weekly alone and i constantly ran these routines and followed the A3 model . And i were see'ing the IOI's and the Hooks and i was feeling good. By the luck of the draw someone posted something about RSD on one of the MM sites and this is how i got started into RSD

I've read alot of posts of the forums, I've seen the dvd's and I've been to the field numerous times. This is still the training phase but ..... I Will See results , I will not be denied , and me successeding is inevitable .... it will happen .

Since the transition I have met alot of interesting people and have had the pleasure to Wing with them
Proteus , Professor Bill . Law , Jeff , Skinny , Biff , Andy , Loren and a few others ... each person I have learned a great amount from and I will use that to help me get to where I am Aiming ... People who I talk to that help me get motivated and definetly help with there no tolerance for Choding are Smooth , Drunk John ,ManWhore , Jack Diesal and a few others .

I will make it ....
This is What i am her for .......
Females want to be led and I am the leader .............